How to Create a Sex Room Design That Screams Sex
So you finished watching the first episode of Melanie Rose’s new Netflix series, ‘How to Build a Sex Room,’ (have you ever wondered who pays for the rooms on ‘How to Build a Sex Room’? )and you were inspired to give your bedroom a new look? Unfortunately, you are not the talented interior designer Melanie Rose, and you need inspiration.
You’re not an interior designer. Heck, maybe you have trouble finding a placement for the most basic furniture, and you are struggling to figure out good ideas for your new love-making nest.
You don’t want to end up with a color scheme that gives you a headache or a room so cluttered that you can’t even move. Don’t worry – we have collected exciting tips to help you design the erotic room of your (wet) dreams!
The Best Sex Room Interior Design Ideas
Sexual fantasies are infinitely variable – so are sex room interior designs. That’s why we want to give different suggestions, from sexy furniture to BDSM decor, and tips for creating a sensual atmosphere.
Don’t let popular misconceptions stop you from creating a room of your dreams. Here’s what Melanie Rose has to say about them:
Sex Room Project
Recognize the type of room that you want to use as your sex room. Consider the size and the mood you want. Think of your likes and dislikes, and any ideas – perhaps ones inspired by Mary Poppins of sex – Melanie Rose. Once you have a vision for the room, you are ready to move forward.
Sex room ideas with swing and stripper pole
Maybe you and your partner are fitness enthusiasts – or perhaps you just find pole dancing incredibly sexy?
Either way, we suggest that you consider adding a swing and a stripper pole – namely, the Mipole 360 Chrome Dance Pole.
Small space
Don’t feel limited by creating your sex room in a small space. The key is the decor – there are plenty of awesome sex room ideas appropriate for small rooms.
Neutral sex room
Maybe you don’t want your sex room to be so in-your-face. Maybe you have roommates, and you’re a private person. A neutral sex room is completely doable – you simply need to find discreet placement for anything sexual.
Sex room in the attic
Why not? What’s kinkier than having a secret sexy attic? This is a great option – especially for a noir BDSM den!
What Should You Put in Your Sex Room?
This is the room where your most intimate moments take place, so get excited! Your new sex room should include your adult toys and other kinky objects, chains, whips, and a sex swing… That said, consider the atmosphere and carefully choose lighting, bedding, carpets, and the list goes on.
Kinky objects and artwork
Are you kinky? If that’s the case, don’t be afraid to incorporate kink decor into your sexy space.
Depending on what you’re into, maybe an inversion table or a St. Andrew’s cross with bondage equipment (such as Liberator Beso Bondage Chair) would be a great addition to your impressive collection.
Consider hanging up some kinky art or some spicy personal photos – the cherry on top of your personalized kinky dungeon.
Finish off your naughty design by hanging your leather gear on penis-shaped hooks, and enjoy!
Sex furniture
Our following recommendations for sex furniture would be approved by Melanie Rose herself:
Best for New Positions: Liberator Esse Chaise
Are you curious about exploring new positions with your partner? Look no further.
Check out our Liberator Esse review!
Would you prefer something narrower? The Liberator Lyza Lounger might be the right choice for you!
Pros
- Allows for exciting never-ending adventures with various positions.
- Comes with a headrest which is especially handy after a rough session.
Cons
- Sex in a regular bed sounds like a boring idea afterward.
- On the pricier side.
Best for Weightless Sex: Sportsheets Sex Swing
This fun sex swing is designed to keep couples connected!
Pros
- Very comfortable and durable - pleasure guaranteed!
- When it comes to purchasing a sex swing, this is very reasonably priced.
- Reliable support for people of different sizes.
Cons
- Even regular swings make you horny now, watch out!
- If you don’t go through the instructions carefully, a rough-handed lover might fuck their way through your door.
Versatile: Wedge Ramp Combo
This exciting wedge ramp combo is the greatest sexy invention since sex itself.
Check our Liberator Wedge review. Find out what are the best Liberator shapes too!
Pros
- All your fantasies are guaranteed to come true on this sensual platform.
- Prevent locking your jaw during an intense oral session - so keep on gobbling and have fun!
- The fabric is soft and feels nice and sensual, adding to your experience.
Cons
- You’re done having regular horizontal sex.
- Having morning sex on this wedge ramp is so much fun that you might be consistently late from work now.
Best for Experimenting: Sex Position Enhancer Chair
Another great enhancer for your pleasure is to put you in the mood – in any position. Get excited!
Pros
- Great orgasms with easy cleanup.
- Offers great support and can hold a lot of weight - so pretty much anyone can use it regardless of size.
- No muscle strains or aching, no matter how intensely you enjoy doing the deed on this chai.
Cons
- Can get very messy due to the intense orgasms.
- Initial assembly can be a little challenging.
Best for Restraint Play: Divan Black Label Daybed
If getting tied up turns you on, you’re welcome – we present this black-label daybed designed for domination.
Read our guide and discover the best Liberator furniture! Check also out our full Liberator Divan Daybed review.
Pros
- You get to explore your restraint kink in a whole new way!
- Sturdy and firm - keep on pounding, and don’t be afraid of slipping easily!
Cons
- You’re kinky now, there’s no going back.
- If you forget to hide the restraints, this one may be difficult to explain to any visiting guests you may have over.
Tip: Combine this kinky tool with this Wedge/Ramp Conversion kit to maximize your orgasms.
Bedding & Accessories
You want to choose bedroom decor that screams sex – and for that, you need to decide on bedding and accessories. We suggest the following:
Satin Sheets
Arguably the best sheets are these liquid velvet sheets – no question.
Click here to read our sex sheet guide!
Splashproof Throw
For the squirters, here’s a waterproof squirt blanket that lets you experience pleasure without cleaning up your bed and floor afterward.
Pillows
This cute heart wedge pillow is designed for angles perfect for deep penetration – just what your relationship needs.
You’ll find even more great sex pillows in our guide!
Furry Rug
Consider a rug that adds to the atmosphere – just make sure to pick one that is easy to clean from bodily fluids.
Candles
What’s more romantic than scented candles? For sexy suggestions, we suggest this one from SheVibe.
Mirrors
Buy a mirror and place it to face the bed. Your sex life will thank you.
Restraints
This bondage set is just as good for your relationship and pleasure as it is as an addition to your new sexy bedroom.
Toy storage
Want to keep things discreet? Decide on a closet or a box where you can safely store your sex toys. Fit this to the theme of your room, and don’t buy it from Bob the Builder.
What to Consider?
You want to consider not only the location of your new sexy room but your fantasies, the surfaces you like doing the deed on, your budget, and your preferences for decor and lighting.
Sex room location
Picking a location is tricky – you can use various spaces, such as your bedroom or even the guest room or attic.
Your fantasies
Now that you’ve chosen your dedicated sex room, think about how to bring your sexual fantasies to life!
Place for sex
Maybe you enjoy a traditional bed for sex. Or perhaps a St. Andrew’s cross or a leather table. Pick a few of your favorites, and find a way to incorporate them into your sexy space.
Budget
Melanie Rose’s clients’ sex rooms are on the pricier side – but yours doesn’t have to be. Use furniture that you already own and buy sexy decor that fits your budget. If you have a rich sugar daddy, put everything on his credit card.
Decor Theme
The theme of your sexy decor is dependent on you – just make sure to keep it consistent. If your choice is a subtle romantic space, perhaps covering the wall with 12-inch butt plugs is not appropriate.
Lighting
Use mood lighting to create a sexy atmosphere – but natural lighting can be sexy too.
Not sure how to start? Read our sexy bedroom lighting ideas!
Colors
Stick to warm, sensual colors like orange, brown, red, and black. Stay far from bright neon colors.
Textures
If you’re a touchy-feely person, textures matter. Choose comfortable but different textures that complement each other – maybe silk bedding and leather cuffs.
Music
Stay away from dad-rock and the Teletubbies theme song (unless that’s a huge turn-on). Otherwise, this is really up to you. Hot tip: create your own sex playlist!
Conclusion
Now that you have some ideas for additions to your bedroom to create the love-making room of your dreams, get busy! Buy that pony bench, work on painting that old ceiling joist, maybe watch ‘How to Build a Sex Room’ hosted by the interior designer Melanie Rose for additional ideas, and start seriously planning your erotic home renovation!
These tips might get handy also when you decide to create your own adult airbnb design!
Check also our gay sex room ideas and neutral sex room ideas! And for those who like the show – find out if Netflix “How to Build a sex room” is real!
FAQs
How to decorate a sex room?
To decorate a sex room, choose aesthetic decor aligned with your sexual fantasies. Go shopping with your partner and choose new BDSM furniture to try out! Seriously – name a better date idea.
What if I don't have an extra room for sex?
If you don’t have an extra room for sex, don’t worry – you don’t need a spare room. Instead, you can easily renovate your pre-existing bedroom into a proper sex room.
You can also have sex in pretty much every room of the house – just sayin’.
What if I have kids?
If you have kids, this will not be an issue because sex rooms are not exclusive to child-free couples. You simply need to be more subtle and cautious. Instead of having sex toys and boudoir photography on display, decide on a designated sex toy box, bag, or closet.
Click here to learn more!
How can I make my room suitable for sex?
To make your room suitable for sex, add erotic decor, adult toys, and sex furniture, and choose seductive lighting and colors – ta-da!
How much does it cost to build a sex room?
Building a sex room can cost anything from a few hundred to thousands of dollars. The clients of Melanie Rose and other top-notch designers pay thousands of dollars, but you don’t have to.
And in case you want to hire a designer, our article will tell you how to start! Find also out how much a sex room designer costs.
How do I talk to my partner about building the sex room?
In order to talk to your partner about building a sex room, the key is just to be honest – start with “Honey, we need to talk about something,” and drop the sex room bomb.
Who has a sex room?
Anyone who enjoys sex can – and should – have a sex room. Maybe your next-door neighbor has one.
Is it worth building a room for sex?
It is definitely worth building a room for sex – unless your biggest kink is to get fucked in various boring places.
How to place mirrors in the bedroom for sex?
To place mirrors in the bedroom for sex, place them facing the bed – this allows you to check out your partner during sex – what’s hotter than that?