The Ultimate Tantric Sex Toys For You And Your Lover
Last Updated on September 1, 2023

Experience Your Divine Using Tantric Sex Toys and Accessories!

You want to enjoy a blissful erotic life, especially if you have a long-term partner, right? Research shows that “higher levels of intimacy are associated with higher sexual desire”

The daily grind can be so distracting, working, house chores, looking after kids, that your sex-life is often the first victim of the relationship. The thing is, with a little TLC and especially with a little Tantra, you can nurture your relationship, improve intimacy, honor your partner and enjoy an enhanced romantic life.

Using Tantric sex toys and furniture is a sensitive and delicious way to strengthen intimacy and improve your sex life. The best part? You can rebalance your chakras at the same time. (All will become clear soon enough!)

Sit back, pop your feet up and let me introduce you to the best Tantric accessories for you and your lover…

OUR HOT PICKS

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Stylish multi-use sex ramp

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Best On Budget

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Metal Beginner's Butt Plug

Make me sparkle, please! 

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Lush and soft synthetic silk fabric

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4.75/5

Best Tantric Yoni Egg

The Heart yoni egg is the best and most gorgeous kegel egg I’ve ever seen. You’ll enjoy the pale pink cloudy appearance of the 100% rose quartz. It’s a precious crystal that resonates with your heart chakra and nurtures your feminine energy.

If you want to energise love, fulfillment, and peace within yourself while nourishing your divine sexual power then this is a beautiful way to do so.

You can use the Heart egg as a kegel ball, holding it inside your vagina, to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles, or for a yoni massage by stroking it over your vulva and clitoris.

Kegel egg practice increases pleasure during sex so you feel more. Re-balance your yin-yang energy and have your heart chakra release your inner shag-ra!

The Heart yoni egg is the best and most gorgeous kegel egg

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Best Quartz Dildo

The prettiest and best rose quartz dildo is the Heart by Chakrubs. It’s smooth surface feels incredible when used for Tantric massage. It’s 100% natural and body-safe.

The rose quartz aligns with your heart chakra and eases emotional blockages and muscular stress. You’ll find yourself more able to comfort others through awakening the female energy as well as building your own self-confidence.

Research states that masturbation improves self-esteem and what better way to do it than with a stunning, slim, crystal dildo?

The dildo is slimmer at one end than the other so you can choose which end to slide in and out of your yoni. The cold crystal feels amazing and will warm to body temperature for extra sensation and blood flow. You feel your heart chakra and yoni glow with the Heart quartz dildo.

The Chakrubs Heart Slim Crsytal Dildo

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Look after your libido and heart chakra with the prettiest Tantric dildo ever!

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Best Tantric Wand

The best, most magical wand is the Tachyonised Pleasure wand. It’s especially shaped, with wavy lines, to feel sublime when you and your lover give each other Tantric massage or auric stroking.

It’s made from glass and feels amazing as it changes from cold to body-temperature on your skin. In your yoni or anus it causes the perfect energy flow to heighten your Tantric experience.

The most beautiful aspect of this wand is that it’s designed for you to experience Tantric healing. The best part for financial practicalities is that there’s currently a discount on the Tantra Healing Energy website!

In your yoni or anus tantric wand causes the perfect energy flow to heighten your Tantric experience.

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Cast an erotic spell on your bits with the pleasure wand here!

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Best Jade Butt Plug

The best jade butt plug is by Real Nature Pure over at Etsy. This gorgeous green stone is a pointed shape that you can use for massage and relieving acupressure points. The thing you’ll love the most for sexual sensations is how you can use it at that special moment to penetrate.

Jade green is associated with the heart chakra and has the benefits of making you feel calm and secure, it is soothing and helps you to make balanced decisions.

This butt plug is the ultimate if you want to combine sacred unity with anal stimulation, which feels amazing for women and men. It can send you over the edge into orgasmic bliss.

Historical fact: in ancient Eastern literature the use of jade “rings” with a protruding part is mentioned. They were sometimes worn at the base of the penis in order to stimulate the clitoris during heterosexual lovemaking.

Jade Butt Plug used for massage and relieving acupressure points

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Best Metal Butt Plug

The best metal butt plug is also the sparkliest, it’s the jeweled metal plug by Lovehoney. You’ll really love the jeweled base which sparkles when you wear it.

The pointed end means you find it easy to slide in and once it’s in you can rest assured that your lover is enjoying the sight of your spectacularly sparkling sphincter (butt-hole).

This is a gorgeous butt plug if you enjoy temperature play and you and your lover enjoy Tantric sessions filled with sensory stimulation. It feels especially lovely if you heat it in warm water, insert it and then have your lover trace an ice cube from the bottom of your spine, down your butt crack to meet the plug.

If you’re a beginner to plugs, this one is ideal because it’s only 2.5” so glides in so easily (be sure to use lube), you’ll hardly notice it’s there unless your lover wriggles it.

Jeweled metal plug by Lovehoney

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Want a glittering glow from your butt-hole? Get dazzling here.

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Best Medical-grade Steel Wand

The best medical-grade steel wand is the Njoy on the Lovehoney site. Lovehoney specialise in providing you with sex products manufactured especially for enhancing your intimate life. This means you get the most pleasure possible.

The Njoy is a sleek 10” wand with a curve that enables you to itch that scratch that your sweet spot gives you. You know when you feel that little tingle, the flutter, the twinge, and you feel the need to satisfy your yoni, lingam, or prostrate? Well, this is called a wand for a reason. Slide the cool metal wand in (you can heat it up by putting it in hot water) and find your hotspot. Next?

Give it a little tickle, a massage. Trust me, this wand is blo*dy lovely when you wriggle it around the g-spot area. Are you ready to cast spells over yourself until you shudder? Try it with a lover, it’s double-ended, don’t you know?!

Interesting Historical Point: in ancient Japanese texts, it’s advised to warm up dildos by submerging them in warm water or oil first.

The best medical-grade steel wand

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Tickle your tingles and twinges with the steel wand now

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Best Glass Tantric Dildo

The best glass dildo when it comes to Tantra sex toys is Icicles No. 86. Oh, he’s lovely. Icicles is made from safe, strong glass and is shaped to look realistic.

You get to enjoy the fleshy, transparent look of watery skin. It’s the stuff of Tantric goddesses, you’ll feel all a flutter rolling it over your chest, your belly and pushing it inside your yoni or in your butt.

I’ll be honest with you, I enjoy a big shaft, especially in girth. What Vincent has is 8” to completely fill you up (try pinching a nipple at the same time, it feels great and if you’re with a lover it will turn them on).

Historical point: the Kama Sutra refers to implements made from gold, silver, copper, and ivory that could be used to stimulate the sexual organs.

lovehoney glass dildo

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Best Silky Tie-Ups

The best silky and most sensual tie-ups are these purple satin ribbon ties. They are incredible for sensual play with your lover. You can blindfold and tease each other or indulge in some restraint play…

The ties feel soft to touch and being purple make you think of the crown chakra. The crown chakra and the act of sensitive and well-discussed bondage can lead to higher self-awareness and consciousness.

To take your Tantra practice to a whole new mental state of sexual unity, these silk ties are perfect.

Interesting fact: in ancient times, rope bondage was an art form in the East. Criminals would be captured with the slimmest of ropes, the thin rope used to emphasise their vulnerability.

The best silky and most sensual tie-ups are these purple satin ribbon ties.

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Get tied up, tickled, and teased the Tantric way today!

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Best Velvish Tantric Sheet

The best velvish Tranta sheet is the Liberator’s fascinator sex throw which you’ll love. It’s amazing bedding during Tantric exploration between you and your lover.

The blanket is waterproof and provides a moisture barrier so that you can enjoy a wet, sticky adventure without worrying about stains.

However your house is decorated, you’ll find a color to match. You can throw it over any piece of furniture, take it away if you’re travelling and even better, lay it on the ground for lovemaking under the sun or moon.

The best velvish Tranta sheet is the Liberator’s fascinator throw which you’ll love

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Best Sex Swing

The best sex swing that will enhance your Tantra sex adventure is the Sportsheets swing by Lovehoney. The great thing about it is that as long as you have a door that you can shut, you’ll be able to use this swing.

Using a sex swing is a brilliant way for you and your partner to have stand-up and/or suspended sex. You’ll find it particularly fun if you struggle to hold each other’s weights when you’re going in for a long lovemaking session.

You’ll find the couples sex swing sturdy, good quality and a reasonable price. It’s ideal if you want to try new things with your lover.

Historical point: ancient texts encourage the use of sexual aids or tantric sex toys and using your surroundings (e.g. ropes, swings, fruit) for sexual inspiration as depicted in 18th century Chinese art.

The best sex swing that will enhance your Tantra sex adventure

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Best Tantric Chair

The best tantric chaise lounge if you’re looking for a high quality piece of sex furniture is the The Tantra Chair by Zen. This gorgeous chaise lounge was designed especially to enhance your experience of the Kama Sutra and your tantric practice.

With a piece of tantric furniture in your home, you make the choice to be a conscious lover who honors the divine and sacred unity of lovemaking.

The shape of this chair is amazing at introducing you to new variations of traditional positions. You’re able to stay in positions longer through the leverage you get from being able to balance your feet on the floor. You also experience new angles during foreplay and sex.

Hand-crafted and built to last a lifetime, this is the ideal piece of tantra furniture to take you on a sexual awakening. For more about tantric sofas check my guide.

Tantric chair will introduce you to new variations of traditional positions.

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Best Tantric Ramp

The best sexual ramp to practice Tantra on is Liberator’s Flip Ramp. The velvish cover feels soft and sensual on your skin and it’s light enough to move around the house. Perfect if you want to try sensual shenanigans outside of the bedroom.

If you and your partner enjoy the 69 position, this will hold you there and take off the strain so you can satisfy each other easily and for a long time.

Amazing firm body support and lift for your sacred bits. This gives you and your lover easy access to each other and encourages enhanced sexual play. You can use it as a pillow during sexual positions, or ramp for full body support during intercourse

Tantric ramp - amazing firm body support and lift for your sacred bits.

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Lift your sacred bits for your lover to lick as soon as next week!

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Best Tantric Pillow/Wedge

The best Tantric pillow is the Heart wedge. It’s the loveliest Tantra accessory to add to your bedroom.

This wedge was made especially to go underneath your hips. At 7” high, it lifts you so that your pelvis is in the ideal position to receive stimulation from your lover.

I absolutely love missionary with my Heart pillow lifting my yoni up to my partner’s tongue.

The cover is available in a range of colors so you can choose the best option to suit your bedding. When you aren’t using it for foreplay and Tantric exploration it looks cute as a spare cushion on your bed or sofa.

Tip? Try the wheelbarrow position recommended on the Liberator site!

Tantric Pillow - the loveliest Tantra accessory to add to your bedroom.

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For deeper, more divine, delectable pleasure, check out the heart pillow.

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What to consider before buying Tantra Sex Toys & Furniture?

You’ll want to think about what materials you would like your Tantric sex toys and furniture to made from.

It’s really important to buy from reputable companies so you can trust that the products are body-safe.

The products that I’ve recommended here are made from various materials like rose quartz, jade, glass, stainless steel, and vegan fabrics.

Ask yourself what you want from your Tantra accessories. Yes, you can buy incredible sexual toys to improve your Tantric adventure, but have you ever thought about trying Tantric sex toys made from crystal? This way you can rebalance various chakras at the same time as experiencing sensual pleasure..

Ask yourself what it is you want from your Tantric exploration. You and your lover will need to have an open conversation listening and honoring the other’s needs and desires.

Will you want Tantric toys for specific things (i.e. anal pleasure) or would you like a Tantric accessory that can bring versatility, like a sex pillow that enhances Tantric stimulation? Check out black friday tantric sex toys deals!

Conclusion

There’s so much to choose from, isn’t there? And they’re all so good! My particular favorite is the Heart Yoni Egg because it feels blissful meditating with it before moving onto a conscious self-love session.

However, if you’re going to get one thing to improve the intimacy between you and your lover, I’d say to go for the Flip-Ramp. It’s an affordable piece of sex furniture ideal for ramping up your Tantra practice.

Tantra is often a lifestyle choice. It’s so important to invest in the heavenly exploration of intimacy with a partner. Using Tantric toys and aids makes your Tantric adventure more fun and more enlightening. Remain open-minded and enjoy…

One thing to improve the intimacy between you and your lover, I’d say to go for the Flip-Ramp

FAQ

What is Tantric Sex?

Tantric sex is the weaving of energy. Its goal is focused on connection to yourself and to your partner. Tantric sex is concerned with erotic experience and pleasure as a whole, rather than orgasm as the goal.

Tantric sex is a journey of exploration and creating intimacy with your lover. It is a slow, sensual, meditative sexual connection. Hungry for more? I wrote a blog post, you don’t want to miss.

Why should we try Tantric Sex?

Tantric sex awakens you. When you practice it, you become in-tune with yourself, your body, and that of your partner. It brings a more sensitive and sensory experience of pleasure and becomes completely satisfying.

When you’re able to channel your Tantric energy outside of the bedroom, you become more aware, conscious, and more productive.

How to perform Tantra?

You need to connect mind and body, so start with a 10-15 minute meditation (yoga and yogic breathing are great ways to do this).

Create a beautiful, calm space that stimulates all the senses. Consider lighting (lamps, candles), scent (incense, essential oils), touch and comfort (sex furniture, blankets), and taste (fruits) to provide the perfect sensory environment.

If you’re alone try slow self-massage. If you’re with a partner, spend a long time massaging and exploring each other’s body using the things in the environment. Really pay attention to what feels good for you and your lover, then respond to this.

And remember, lovelies:
“Dating is a muscle,
Flirting is a muscle,
Sex is a muscle.
You have to exercise all three.”
   – Emily Morse (Doctor in Human Sexuality).