App controlled vibrators guide
Last Updated on August 4, 2023

Best App-Controlled Vibrators: The Flawless Orgasms You Never Knew You Needed!

Woo, I finally get to share my ultimate guide to remote control vibrators. I’m an extremely horny person. It may or may not have something to do with the fact I spend most of my days writing about and testing out sex toys.

I feel like this is a classic chicken or egg situation, but in my situation, it’s more like the sex blog or the dirty mind. What came first? Wait, never mind is definitely the dirty mind. In case you’re wondering, yes it has made my sex life even more incredible.

Sex toys have been around for centuries. Like legit pre-historic dildos have been found (1) Thankfully, the industry has evolved to amazing sex tech because, personally, I’m not rushing to stick a cave stone-shaped dildo up my vag. But that’s just me.

The invention of remote control vibrators has been a gift from the sex gods. I dare anyone to complain about them! However, just cause they are out there doesn’t mean all sex toys are amazing.

Lucky for you, my dirty mind took the challenge and now has a list of the best remote control sex toys on the market. Are you ready to join me and my dirty mind? Full disclosure, you might need a change of underwear when you’re done!

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Best G-Spot Vibrator Controlled via App: Pearl3

Skipping the foreplay and getting straight to sex is how I feel best describes the Pearl 3. Now don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with that.

However, I personally prefer clitoral stimulation while I’m being penetrated. Whether that’s with a vibrator or a live test subject. I mean my boyfriend.

That being said, try getting f**cked with this while your partner is tongue-deep between your legs. You can thank me later.

This AMAZING remote control vibrator is ideal for anyone who is more sensitive to clit stimulation.

Since this baby only has an insertable shaft, you can enjoy whatever level of setting without being worried about your clit.

One great thing about this little sex toy is the remote control vibration and pattern settings. You can control the settings by moving the toy along your body or from the base of the toy. But it doesn’t end there. Use the super simple app to explore even more pleasure options.

This magic stick can be synced up to the ONYX, its penis sleeve counterpart. Taking any long-distance sex to an entirely new dimension of pleasure! Very few sex toys for couples are this realistic feeling.

You can almost feel your partner moving inside you as if they were right there. I literally cannot express how hot and bothered my boyfriend and I got when trying it out for the first time. Let’s just say neither of us lasted very long.

Overall this remote control sex toy is fantastic! I mean, it is 7.5 inches in length, so can you blame me for LOVING it?

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Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!

Best App-Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator: Lovense Lush 3

Oh, hot damn, this is genuinely one of the best remote control vibrators I tested. Also one of the most unique ones in the sex toy industry.

In fact, it was one of the first remote-control sex toys I added to my sex life, that proved I didn’t need a dick in my life.

The Lovense Lush, in my eyes, is one of the OG body-shaking sex toys. So you can just imagine how insane their 3rd gen version must be.

This vibrating egg with a C-shaped tail is perfect for anyone wanting top-notch orgasms on a budget. Don’t let the word budget fool you.

There is a reason this remote control vibe is so damn popular. It’s not just a cam girl’s wet dream.

The Lovense app is unbelievably easy to use and an excellent tool for long-distance couples.

Lets someone control your toy from anywhere in the world! All you need is a device with blueteooth and internet connection. Yup, long, distance sex at its finest! One of my favorite things is how perfectly it fits inside me and hits both the clit and my g spot flawlessly.

Making it the ideal toy for public play. Try going out with the girls while your partner controls your toy. You won’t last long, trust me.

The app itself is incredible. With endless preset patterns to choose from, and the option to get super creative and make your own pattern is just the cherry on top of already orgasmic ice cream!

Sadly there is no clit stimulation. But for a gal who usually needs that, I can say this remote control device is that good. I forgot about the lack of a clit arm almost immediately. I suggest ordering one right away! So are you ordering it?

Check also: best egg vibrator!

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Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!

Best Remote Control Vibrator: Esca2

The Esca2 is another great example of a budget-friendly toy for amazing long-distance playtime!

Or just app-controlled solo play. It’s personally not powerful enough to make my top 5 favorite list.

But that’s just because I am a greedy bitch and want a vibrator that feels like a level 9 earthquake in my vagina!

Strength aside, This toy’s features are definitely one to tell your friends about.

You can create a mini-concert in your room by syncing up the remote control device to music and turning on the LED Light feature.

It will then sync to the vibration. So there you have it, a concert you can masturbate at without getting arrested.

I love the techy feel of this toy, especially hows easily it folds up in the pouch it comes in. I have taken this away with me on work trips and have never been disappointed!

The long-distance sex features have come in handy many times. However, I just feel bad for my hotel bed. I feel like it sees more action in my 2-day business stays than it has in its entire life. All I can say is I hope no one uses a blacklight when changing the sheets.

For those of you looking for a super full feeling, this toy insertable section might not hit your g spot in the way you’re looking for. But that being said, it is a perfect middle-range pleasure for everyday fun!

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Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!

The Best Vibrator Controlled Through an App: We-Vibe Melt

Cheers to another sleek and sexy remote sex toy. The We-Vibe Melt is a pressure wave clitoral suction vibrator that can be a gorgeous addition to your sex life.

So perfect to be used during penetrative sex, which is one of my favorite ways to use it!

Because of the awesome pressure air tech, you get pleasure waves sent straight to your clit. No more oversensitive playtime!

This toy is perfect for anyone looking for a little sprinkle of luxury in their sex life.

The remote control toy itself is super easy to use manually with the (+ -) control buttons. Test out the 12 intensities and see which one hits the spot.

The free app might take you slightly longer to find your way around, but once you’ve figured out you be having dirty remote sex every damn day of the week. Just send that app invite out to your partner and get to playing!

Sadly if you’re looking for that full feeling of a vibrator with an internal arm as well as clitoral stimulation, this is not that toy. But sometimes it’s nice just having clit stimulation or at least owning an awesome variety of the most popular sex toys on the market.

If you’re someone with a sensitive clit, this is a great choice for you. The pleasure air technology was invested for whisper clit stimulation so even the most sensitive of clits can sit back and let the orgasms roll in.

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Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!

App-Controlled Wearable Vibrator: Cliona

Is it a vibrator? Or a minion that joined the plastics on a Wednesday. “On Wednesdays, we wear pink” (Mean Girls)

Either way, it packed a punch. Again something that can be used to describe both the remote control sex toy and a pink minion.

This adorable sex toy is cute as a button and the perfect budget-friendly pleasure option for anyone who LOVES pink and orgasms.

And let’s be honest, who doesn’t love orgasms?!?

The long-distance control feature is bound to put the bounce back in any long-distance relationship. Or just keep the heat right up while you’re apart.

The super cool features I find in this toy that I usually only see in toys for dicks, is that it can sync to various interactive content. For example, pornhub, 3D services VR and others. This means you can join in on that threesome you’ve been watching on pornhub every time you play with yourself. Don’t tell me it’s just me; I’ll know you’re lying.

Usually, I’m someone who needs an internal arm as well, but because it’s so cute and compact, it can be used simultaneously during sex. Which is my personal favorite.

The compactness of this remote control vibrator makes this the perfect choice for any travelers out there! I just throw it in my makeup bag, and none is the wiser. The best part is that it is so affordable I could cry, but I won’t cause that would be weird.

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Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!

Best Rabbit Vibrator Controlled by App: We-Vibe Nova 2  (& Prostate Massager Alternative)

All hail the We-Vibe Nova 2; this rabbit remote-control toy sends shivers down my spine just writing about it.

It also has to do with the fact that I just finished using it, and it’s technically still inside me. What? Quality testing is important.

Ok, now that I’ve caught my breath and I’ve gotten my eyesight back, I can give you the juicy details about this toy.

Not only is it super luxurious for all you boujee babes out there, but it also provides you with orgasms fit for mother f**king royalty!

Never miss a sex date night, even when you or your partner is away on a business trip.

The We-Connect App not only allows for long-distance playtime.

But provides you with unlimited vibration patterns and plenty of internal and external stimulation.

And now for my favorite feature, the travel lock. You’d think it wouldn’t get worse than your bag vibrating when going through airport security.

Guess what? You’re wrong, watching security bring a dog to sniff around and then slowly remove my already vibrating vibrator from its pouch and hold it up in the air while screaming it’s ok, it’s just a dildo, in the strongest southern accent I’ve ever heard.

Let’s just say I prayed for the first time in years for the ground to open up and just swallow me whole. But no luck there. 

Thankfully this remote control vibrator is genuinely worth that mortifying situation. Because I still have nightmares about that frightful day.

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Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!

Best App Controlled Double Vibrator: Tiani Harmony

This wonderful toy is perfect for couples looking for some extra heat and adventure in the bedroom. Don’t worry. It’s super amazing for personal play time as well. 

Like other Lelo toys, the Tiani Harmony has two separate motors that work in tandem to literally blow your mind or maybe just your pants off.

This toy not only provides G- spot stimulation and Clitoral stimulation. But due to the insertable arms’ flat design, it’s perfect for a dick to be put in with it.

I love this because I want all the pleasure I can possibly handle.

My favorite positions to use this glorious toy in are cowgirl and doggy because who doesn’t love being f**ked from behind? Are you with me? Although technically, missionary is the best position if you want to get the most out of this toy.

The beautiful shape is so flexible it almost hugs your body from the inside out. Literally feeling like luxurious silk with every movement.

It’s also absolutely fabulous for public play, though less comfortable than some of my other favorite options. Regardless, this toy is so versatile you’ll forget about your others toys.

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Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!

Best App-Controlled Vibrator for Outside Use: Ida Wave

The Ida Wave screams quality. Or more like moans it if you ask me.

Talk about spicing up your sex life. This toy is more like dumping a giant bag of spice on your relationship.

This majestic toy provides internal and external stimulation for an explosion of pleasure. Its ergonomic design slides inside you, perfectly hitting your G spot!

Wow, I’m wet just thinking about it, or maybe it’s the fact that. I just used it; who knows.

With two separate motors, the Ida Wave is just killing it in the sex toy game.

One motor is for your clit, and the other is for G -spot stimulation.

This means you’ll get an explosion of pleasure regardless of your chosen setting. My body crumbled and melted away after I first used it. I almost didn’t make it through all the settings when testing it out.

I’m not surprised at this quality. Lelo is one of the most popular adult toy companies. And I’m not mad about it one bit!

This toy is for anyone who wants a luxury, sleek toy to add to their collection. It’s also great for couples looking to explore a deeper level of intimacy.

You can use it during penetrative sex, and between us squirlfriends, it’s a mind-numbingly good time!

I love this toy’s compactness. It folds perfectly into its pouch. Which is nice, given the truckload of sex toys I own. I need a bigger apartment, or else I’ll just be swimming in dick, and not in a fun way!

You won’t be sorry if you order this right away! So what are you waiting for?

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Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!

Long-Distance Remote Control Sex Toy: Fuse

This beautiful toy is designed more like a classic rabbit vibrator, offering dual stimulation. But it’s 7 inches in length, in my opinion, is the cherry on top!

This toy is pretty impressive for a remote control vibrator. Perfect for anyone who wants to feel stuffed while their clit is teased!

It’s also perfect for anyone looking for quality while staying kind to their bank account.

The touch sensitivity is a super cool feature that sets this toy apart from its classmates.

That means the toy can detect how far its inserted inside you and adjust its intensity to maximise its orgasms making power.

The deeper it is, the stronger the vibrations. Insane right?

I’d be lying if I said this baby wasn’t powerful as f**k. So powerful in fact, I forgot to take mental notes of the toy when using it the first time. 

Because it’s a blend of two toy companies, you can connect to two apps. The OhMiBod or the Feel Connect App. I prefer the OhMiBod interface; it is a little more user-friendly.

Just get your partner only needs to download the app to take control and tease you till you scream! The best part is because this toy is half Kiiroo, you can sync it to some other Kiiroo remote control sex toys like the Keon, and you’ll literally melt away with how hot your long-distance sex becomes. 

Once again, this is a toy I would NOT suggest traveling with. Not only is it bulky, but there is no lock, and I refuse to repeat the awkward airport situations I’ve been through. 

I’ll be honest. This toy is powerful and a wonderful size for a body-tingling orgasm, but it is not my utmost favorite. It feels a bit bulky and takes up a lot of space in my sex box and my vagina. not that I’m complaining about a full vagina.

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Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!

App-Controlled Panty Vibrator: We-Vibe Moxie App

This awesome, affordable panty remote vibrator magnetically latches to your panties. And, surprisingly, is very comfortable.

I just took mine out for a spin while taking my puppy for a walk, and let’s just say it’s not the sun shining that put a smile on my face.

However, this might slightly disappoint you if you’re looking for pinpointed stimulation.

But for those of you who want broader stimulation, this gorgeous remote vibrator spreads the vibes out like a champ!

The cool thing about this toys app is you not only have the 10 vibration patterns on the toy itself, the 7 on the remote, and 10 in the app.

But you can create your own and perfectly tailor your next orgasm. This is a feature I personally love.

I spent about 3 hours testing out and creating new patterns. I almost missed a meeting because I was so distracted.

This is a great toy for adventurous couples in long-distance relationships. Or couples who go on a lot of work trips. Like my boyfriend and me. All you do is send a connection link via text, and you can hand over control of your next orgasm. I have sat through some very sexy meetings while he messed around with the settings. Put it on your bucket list.

It is a whole lot of fun wrapped in a ball of even more pleasure. I can’t say I didn’t warn you. Genuinely one of my top favorites in the remote control panty vibrator department.

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Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!

Best App-Controlled Rechargeable Panty Vibrator: Lovense Ferri

I’ll start by saying yes, of course, I own more than one remote control pantry vibrator. One for every mood and occasion, if I’m being honest.

As I’m sure you’ve gathered, I love a bit of naughty discrete public play. The Lovense Ferri is my personal favorite when it comes to a wearable remote-controlled vibrator.

It’s perfect for all you tech geeks out there looking for top-notch quality, powerful orgasms on the go

It’s also very affordable, given the absolute quality and reputation of the sex toy! Lovense never disappoints.

One awesome thing about this toy is the easy-to-use app. I’ve always been a fan of the Lovense app.

You can browse through infinite app patterns or create one yourself.

As well as test out the settings directly on the toy. I vote app all the way. With this toys app, you’ll literally never get bored!

A super cool feature is the Lovense music. This means you can sync to your favorite song in a very different way than usual.

Like many other toys, this gem allows for flawless long-distance control. You can even use the video chat feature while using it. Wow, I’m horny just thinking about it. 

All I can say is if you have a dog, they will be in tip-top shape because you’ll be rushing to take them for walks with your vibrating panties, any chance you get! In fact, I don’t even need my gym membership; I go for so many walks. I tell my boyfriend it’s for the dog, but we both know I’m lying.

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Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!

Best App-Controlled Vibrator for Couples: We-Vibe Chorus

This C-shaped remote vibrator is the definition of quality.

There is a reason We-Vibe has been successfully making toys for almost 20 years. They just kick ass at it! 

This sex toy might have been designed for PIV (penis-vagina sex) sex but can also be used for solo play. I have used it both ways. 

Although I have had more powerful sex toys, the We-Vibe Chorus is a goddamn dream in the form of powerful blended orgasms.

But how could It not be when giving you G-spot and clit stimulation as well as leaving space for a dick. I mean, come on!

The great thing is, unlike other toys, it really is hands-free. So you don’t need to keep adjusting it to stay in place.

Which can get frustrating really fast when you’re in the middle of having sex.

I love the flexibility of the toy, making it suitable for all body types!

As well as the super cool “Touch Sense Mode” which means you can let your natural body movements with your partner control the toy. Every time your partner’s body bumps the clitoral arm, the intensity changes.

The we connect app allows for close-range connectivity as well as long distance all through the awesome and accessible We vibe app.

Although when it comes to long-distance compatible toys, we vibe chorus isn’t my go-to. That’s mainly due to the app itself, not the amazing toy.

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Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!

Cheap Remote Controlled Vibrator: Lovense Quake

One of my favorite sex toy companies and gone and done it again!

This AMAZING double vibrator is perfect for all you boujee queens out there who love an extra sprinkle of luxury while still getting a bang for your buck. Pun intended!

It’s super ergonomic, which makes it flexible for most body types.

Unfortunately, this is one of the best remote control massager knocked me right off my bed on my ass the first time I used some more powerful patterns.

It’s my fault. I went from 0 to 1000 in 1 second.

The crash was so loud my roommate came rushing in to find me spread eagle, looking like a kid who got caught eating candy in the middle of the night.

Not my proudest moment, if I’m being honest.

The clitoral arm provides insane waves of pleasure, while the internal arm goes to town inside you.

I will say that it’s not my preferred toy as a wearable vibrator or for public play, as it’s pretty heavy.

But she sure as shit makes for a perfect toy for bedroom fun. Of course, if you want to be super naughty, you can combine it with anal. But be warned, it’s a whole lot of pleasure, so you might just explode.

You can choose to try out the presets using the toy buttons themselves. Or majorly level up and test out the unlimited patterns on the incredible Lovense remote app that’s flawlessly easy to use.

The Lovense app is the most advanced Bluetooth control app to date. There is a reason they are so freaking popular! I am literally never disappointed with their level of quality!

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Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!

What to Consider Before Buying the Best Remote Control Vibrators?

The things to consider before buying the best remote control vibrators are what type of stimulation gets you off? as well as what kind of features you need.

For example, do you need an app that allows for long-distance sex, or do you want something that has room for PIV sex? (penis-vagina sex) or do you want something with a huge amount of setting options?

These are just a few examples of things to ask yourself before buying remote-controlled vibrators. As long as you ask yourself the right questions and read everything above, you’ll know exactly what toy you want.

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Conclusion

I’m horny just writing about it. So horny I had to stop for each section and masturbate. Which toys did I use? Well, the one I was just about to write about.

But I’m sure you picked up on that while reading some sections. So my current written opinion is as fresh as the new sheets I’m going to have to replace my current ones with after all this self-love time.

As you can see, there are so many incredible, orgasm-worthy remote-control sex toys on the market. They all just offer slightly different features and benefits.

It’s all about reading about them and choosing what feels best to satisfy you. One of my ultimate favorites has to be the Tiani Harmony. It’s just so extravagant and makes me feel like a queen when using it!

I have spent so long, super disappointed in the majority of toys I use. Especially when apps are involved because so many don’t work as advertised. So finding the toys in the list above was game-changing.

Not just for solo hands-free play but also for long-distance relationships or when you’re out of town. Technological advancements in sex toys have come far, and I am LOVING IT!

Read also: Svakom Mini Emma review!

FAQs

Can I use remote control vibrators in the shower?

You can use most remote control vibrators in the shower. You might choose to use the buttons on the toy itself to choose the settings.

Or maybe use a preset through the app and leave the setting on that through your shower playtime. Just make sure the toy is fully waterproof before jumping in! Sadly not all are.

Where to buy the best long distance sex toys?

You buy the best wireless remote control vibrator at your favorite sex shop. For example, you can go directly to the Lelo or Lovense websites.

Or, if you want a variety, check out LoveHoney. They have toys from all the different sex toy companies. As well as amazing content promos! Be sure to stay connected to get notifications for promotional deals.

In our guide to the best online sex toy shops, you will find a complete list of the best places to buy sex gadgets.

How do I connect my vibrator to an app?

The way to connect your remote control vibrator to an app is usually very straightforward. It will vary from app to app. But you will usually see a space where it says “Connect” or “Sync” toy. Click that, and the toy should immediately be connected.

If you want your partner to connect to your toy, you have to invite them to connect or take control of it! It’s as simple as pie!

Are app-controlled sex toys discreet?

Yes, app-controlled sex toys can be discrete. Although some are more discrete than others.

The contributing factors are sound, size and how easily they stay in, and if they have any connectivity issues.

But overall, you should be all good to get down and dirty without fear of your roommates knowing what you’re up to.

Are you looking for app-controlled toys for your man? Check out our Lovense Gush vs Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Interactive comparison.

Can I use remote control vibrators in public?

Yes, you can use remote control vibrators in public. Although it does depend on the design of the toy. I perfect choosing panty vibrators because they are super comfy and stick to your panties with a magnet.

Try handing over the power to your partner and letting them control your every move while you are out on the town.

Reference:

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