Sex Gifts for Long-Distance Relationship 2025
This article couldn’t have come at a better time. I just got an incredible opportunity overseas and will have to spend a prolonged time away from my test subject, my boyfriend.
All jokes aside, sex is a super important aspect of long distance relationships and one of the hardest things to figure out when in a long-distance relationship.
The good news is with the new sex toy technology out there; you can almost pretend you’re in the same room as your loved one, even when an ocean away!
Suppose you’re not working abroad just to be away from your partner. In that case, you should be reading the article “How to leave your ex by pretending to move abroad”.
Are you ready to hear about all the awesome adult toys for long-distance couples?
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For Your Pussy Sweetheart
Lovense Lush 3
Vibrate your weekend away with one small toy;
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For Long-Distance Couples
Kiiroo Titan & Fuse
Long distance never felt so good;
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For Your Penis Lover
Kiiroo Onyx+
Orgasm technology at its finest; get yours here!
For Vagina Owners
To all my pussy owners out there, no, not you doms who own a pussy; that’s for another post. The list below will have you quivering in your panties just reading about it. Or maybe it’s just me.
You can’t imagine how horny I get just by writing this stuff. So grab your umbrellas cause shit is about to get WET with this list of the best sex gifts for long-distance relationships!
Lovense Lush 3
God damn, the Lovense Lush has been on my top 5 list for years, and with every new version, the old one gets bumped.
The Lush 3 is an eye-rolling ball of fun with its never-disappointing intense vibrations!
It’s perfect for all you boujee queens wanting a toy that will last forever and give you fantastic g spot stimulation! It’s super easy to insert.
All Lovense toys connect to the world-class Lovense remote app.
It might not have a rotating head like some of their other toys, but you really don’t need it. That’s how good this is.
The great thing about the app is that you have access to unlimited vibration patterns and intensities. You can have your partner across the street or the world download the app and flawlessly control it while you just lay there in pure bliss thousands of miles away!
One of my favorite things about this glorious toy is how easily it stays in, making it ideal for public play and hands-free fun. Take this baby out for a spin the next time you walk your pup. I dare you not to show the pleasure on your face while at the dog park.
I’m not sure what’s sexier, the feeling or the fact that no one knows what’s currently deep inside you, making you squirm. However, I did this the last time at the dog park, and I swear the dogs were looking at me sideways; they just knew! So ready to hand give your partner control?
Read our Lovense Lush 3 review!
Pros
- 100% waterproof, this beauty into the bath with you, and see how hot and steamy bathtime can get! Being an adult is so much fun, isn't it?
- Insane battery life, wait for it.... 5 freaking hours of playtime. That's a lot of orgasms just plug in the charging cable, and you're golden.
Cons
- No clitoral stimulation. If this is a deal breaker for your orgasms, this toy might not be suitable for you.
- On the pricier side, but with something this top-notch quality, its worth it.
Satisfyer Dual Pleasure
For all you money-savers out there looking for an expensive orgasm for partnered sex, I’ve got you covered!
Or, more like the Satisfyer Dual Pleasure does. This compact toy is both a clitoral stimulation toy and a G-spot vibrator in one; amazing, no??
I have not seen many toys like this, and that’s saying a lot since we all know I sleep on a mountain of sex toys.
Sort of like Scrooge McDuck’s room or gold coins, but in my case, it’s a room of vibrators, dildos, and butt pugs.
You can easily connect it to the Satisfyer Connect app. Although not as good as the Lovense app, it’s still pretty awesome!
Allowing it to be controlled by your partner from across the globe. It is also easily controlled through the buttons on the toy itself. Test out the incredible 11 vibrations.
Pros
- Whisper mode, meaning no awkward discussions with your roommates about the buzzing sound coming from your room.
- Dual motors mean you can choose precisely what stimulation you want at any point.
- 15-year guarantee; use this as your life depends on it without worrying about breaking it.
Cons
- Visually not the greatest design wise.
- The insertable arm isn't the most inviting. You don't look at and think, ooh, I want that inside me right away!
- I wish it were more powerful! But hey, you can't have it all.
We-Vibe Melt
Holy shit, with a cherry on top! This toy is pure magic! One of the best sexy gifts for your wife (find out more). It actually does what the name implies and makes you melt!
The We-Vibe Melt is perfect for all efficient queens looking for a sleek and sexy toy that gets right to your sweet spot and simulates oral sex!
This clitoral stimulator uses rapid air pulses instead of traditional vibrations for an incredible touchless orgasm.
The toy has 2 buttons (+) that turn it on and out the level up, and (-) that turns it off and the level down. It’s also a flawlessly easy toy to use.
Even your cat could get it working. Although I’ve seen cats do weirder and more impressive things. Like peeing and flushing the toilet, I mean, come on?
I love them, but they are evil and plotting to overthrow the humans. Or is that just the plot of the movie Cats and Dogs? Still, it is very likely.
You can connect to the free we connect app feature on the we vibe app and get playing with your partner. Just send them a link, and they can take control of your orgasms.
We-vibe products connect to the same app. Don’t worry if you already own the We-Vibe Nova; this toy is totally different.
Pros
- Super sleek design, making it a perfect gift for your long-distance lover.
- 12 levels of vibration intensity for every mood of the week, or do what I do and go straight to 12; you won't last long.
- They are completely waterproof, and we all know the best sex toys are those that can join us in the shower.
Cons
- No internal arm. If you need internal stimulation to orgasm, this ain't your toy, honey!
- The app connectivity isn't excellent, so you might have some occasional intervals where you need to reconnect.
- The nozzle is small, so if you have a bigger clit, or enjoy a broader area of stimulation, this won't be it.
Liberator Bon Bon
Save a horse ride a dildo mounted to the Liberator Bon Bon. Long-distance relationships just got a lot easier with this design on the market.
This is perfect for anyone wanting to be a little comfier or go that extra mile to feel like your actually riding your partner (read my review).
The best part is it’s also something you can use when they are around.
Doggy style has never felt so good, or maybe you can have that 3some you talked about if you have a vagina.
It would be your partner and your trusted dildo. Sign me up. Well, my partner, not yours, but you know what I mean.
The fabric is plush and so soft you’ll be so comfy you could ride off into the distance for hours and get lost in the pleasure. But that’s what you expect when buying anything from Liberator.
They are one of the most popular sex toys and accessories for a reason!
Pros
- Machine wash cover, you can get as nasty as you want, and all you have to do is remove the cover and throw it in the washing machine.
- Suitable for any gender and sexual preference! Woo to inclusive toys.
Cons
- On the pricy side.
For Penis Owners
Now, this next section is for all you penis owners out there. Are you ready for a list of sex gifts for long-distance relationships? I promise you’ll get a list so hot you might need to take a cold shower?
Kiiroo Onyx+
If you’ve read any of my previous articles, you’ll know I don’t own a penis unless you count the one currently doing dishes while I write this.
However, I must say that my partner’s face when he saw this male masturbator was priceless. For a moment, I genuinely thought I was about to be replaced.
This is perfect for all you tech peeps out there. The Onyx sex toy series just keeps getting better.
This model sporting 10 contracting rings inside means an even better-stroking sensation and quieter motor than others, which, let’s be honest, who doesn’t want that?
It’s super easy to put the toy into interactive mode and pair it with your partner’s device or compatible toy; you’ll know ready by blue led lights. It might even be better than sex in person. Jk. Try testing out the VR interactive option.
Saying it spices things up is a major understatement.
Read our full Kiiroo Onyx+ review for more details about the toy.
Pros
- So many interactive features you'll get dizzy just choosing one!
- Super ideal for a very personal and real-life feeling for long-distance couples play.
- Easy to clean. Just take out the inner sleeve and wash it.
Cons
- Pretty pricy, so it might not be a toy for someone starting their collection.
- Although it's quieter than other models, its a pretty big toy, so be warned, if you have thin walls and live at home, that could get awkward.
We-Vibe Verge
Talk about a revolutionary cock ring! This incredible toy is techy, luxurious, and affordable, all wrapped in one basket!
It might look like some other cock rings but trust me, baby, it is not!
One golden feature is that instead of stretching the silicone over your partner or your own dick.
It usually looks like trying to shove a tiny elastic hair tie around a bulging german sausage, suffocating it till you get it to the bottom.
Not a pretty picture is something we’re all thinking. This device has a little clip clasp that opens so you can easily place it around you.
With its 10 rumbly vibration patterns sending waves of pleasure through your body, you can’t go wrong. You can use it in short range with the remote control or, most importantly, connect it to the app for long-distance playtime!
Another awesome thing is that it can be used during penetrative sex while your partner is around!
Take a look at our We Vibe Verge vs Lovense Diamo comparison!
Pros
- 100% waterproof, so take it into the shower for some hot and steamy fun. Press play on your favorite music, and just watch the water bill. I learned the hard way.
- Perfect for public play! Take this baby out for a spin and see how long you last before its a cleanup on isle 5
Cons
- Remote control requires a battery which is annoying cause this isn't 2009
- Not the strongest vibrations, so if you're looking for a tornado of a cock ring, this ain't it!
Kiiroo Lumen
The sex gods have done it again, giving us a LED light butt plug fit for all the boujee butts out there!
This wonderful compact butt plug/prostate massager will send shivers down your spine.
One of the coolest features is that once connected to the app, you can control multiple toys.
So if you have other compatible products, you can just lay there while every toy does its thing.
Or you can get your long-distance partner to take the reigns. I love this because you never know what setting changes they will make. The surprise element alone is so hot!
Ok, so now for the extra spicy part. This toy can be connected to some pretty hot interactive content if you feel creative. So each movement in the video will be felt through your toy!
Pros
- Because of its size, this toy is fantastic for beginners , but don't worry, all you butt-plug veterans will have an absolute ball using this!
- Compatible with both the OhMiBod! And the FeelConnect app just makes using the toy that much easier!
Cons
- For any size queens out there, this might be a tad too small.
Fleshlight Top Dog
I couldn’t tell you about the Liberator Bon Bon without talking about the awesome Fleshlight Top Dog.
This is one of the Liberator’s incredibly designed bits of sex furniture with a space for a Fleshlight. Talk about a fun sexual experience.
Providing you with a soft and sexy thing to pound hard when your partner is away.
Although that being said, if they are around, I’m feeling some major pillow 3some vibes, and I am not mad at it one bit!
It’s compatible with all Fleshlight and fleshlight-sized masturbators, so all you have to do is shove in your favorite one, and you’re ready to go!
Tempting, isn’t it?
Pros
- Waterproof faux leather, which means easy to clean! Yes, to having fun and making a mess.
- The design and firmness of the pillow allow for some extra sexy sex positions when your partner is home!
Cons
- On the pricy side for what it is.
- Not always as stable underneath your body weight!
For Them
Ok, hold on to your undies because shit is about to get wetter than a slip-and-slide! I don’t want to tot my own horn, but truly wished I had this list of best sex gifts for long-distance relationships before I went and bought everything I did. Well, lucky for you, I’m here to dish out the golden list!
Kiiroo Titan & Fuse
Literally the definition of luxury in the shape of a sex toy! But I’d expect nothing less.
There is a reason these toys are so damn popular. This couple’s set is changing the game for long-distance relationships!
How it works is every time the KIROO FUSE vibrator is inserted into your body, the depth sends the corresponding vibration to the TITAN automatic stroker.
So every movement made with the insertable toy will be felt in the second toy.
This couple’s set is an absolute favorite for my boyfriend and me. You can remotely control it and feel incredibly realistic sensations.
We have been using it for a while when either of us travels for work, and let me just say. If hotel beds could speak, the ones we were staying on would be screaming for mercy because any chance we weren’t working, we’d like video chat and play!
Adding video chat is great because you can get visual feedback, and it works just by looking at your partner’s face.
Pros
- The Fuse provides clitoral stimulation as well as a flexible arm, making it the perfect toy for ultimate pleasure.
- It can be controlled flawlessly through the awesome app! Sex tech and its finest.
- Syncable to VR content! Join in on that BDSM session in the next porn video you watch. Who can say no to that?
Cons
- Not waterproof, so don't take this into the shower, or it might not be the kind of party you signed up for.
- Bulkier than other toys, so if you travel super light, this won't be your travel partner.
Pulse Solo Interactive Couple Set
This couple’s toy set will give you the royal treatment! It has a crown design on the inside of the toy, so you know it’s true!
I bought the single version for my partner, who didn’t leave his room for an hour. I may need to steal the toy and throw it out, or I’ll be replaced if I’m not careful.
But seriously, there are over 4000 interactive videos this toy can connect to!
That is awesome for him (read more about naughty gifts for boyfriend), but it sucks because I have to level up my game and learn to f**ck like a porn star. No more lazy sex for me!
Talking about lazy sex, there is no need for stroking; you just put the toy on and let it do its thing. It’s thing meaning giving you an eyeballing orgasm.
You can also shake things up, connect to your partner’s toy through the FeelConnect app, and feel every movement they make. Being on the same level makes long-distance sex even more fun! Yup, a realistic experience indeed.
Pros
- While researching others' opinions, I saw a comment that said, "it syncs to porn, dude!" And honestly, I count have said it better myself.
- Insanely powerful vibrations, you'll be seeing stars for hours, porn stars, I mean.
- Super portable, take this baby on the road, and you'll never be alone.
Cons
- The battery only lasts an hour which sucks because it takes 3 hours to fully charge.
- Vibrations are so good you might never stop masturbating, wait, that's a pro, isn't it?
- No separate remote, so if you have issues downloading apps, you might have some issues.
Vibease & Ethesia
This glorious couples set is for all you beauties out there wanting sleek luxury at an affordable price!
The only issue here will be fighting about who gets what. Just kidding, they are both AMAZING!
The Esthesia, I don’t love the name, but I love the toy. It is a rabbit-style vibrator with carefully molded tips to massage both your Clitoris and your G-spot.
The Vibease is a silicone suction toy that sends waves of pleasure throughout your body.
Now, are you ready for the best part? You can sync these toys to your favorite audiobook. This ain’t your grandma’s bedtime story, i’m talking sexy, steamy erotic audiobook.
It was the first thing I did when each one was finally charged up and ready to go. And holy shit is all I can say.
The excellent app lets you hand over control to your partner for long-distance play regardless of time zones and theM being an ocean away. Try testing out controlling your partner’s toys’ vibration modes while they are out and about.
It’s making me horny just thinking about the last time my partner and I did that.
Pros
- Super quiet toys for extra discrete play! Your roommates will never know!
- The soft silicone it's made from is so silky smooth that it almost feels like skin!
- Super powerful unique vibrations, no blue ovaries today!
Cons
- Although buying the set is cheaper, it might be pricy for some, so just buying one toy might be better suited.
- Learning how to use the app; if you hate technology, this baby will not be your friend and will be in continuous use.
What to Consider Before Buying a Sex Gift for a LDR?
The things to consider before buying a sex toy for a long-distance relationship are:
- what kind of stimulation you prefer,
- your price range,
- what level of interaction you're looking for,
- what vibration levels you're after.
Pros
- Having amazing virtual sex can greatly impact any relationship strain you might have when apart. There is a reason people are such big fans of long-distance toys.
- Toys like this make the best sex gifts for any long-distance couple.
- Helps create intimate moments even when apart!
- A fun tool for role-play, and who doesn't love that.
Cons
- It can make a partner feel uncomfortable if they are not used to sex toys and virtual sex.
- Your wallet will take a bit of a hit.
Conclusion
Long-distance sex toys have been one of the biggest contributing factors to long-distance relationships, working out and thriving emotionally and sexually.
I just read an article that talked a lot about the lack of intimacy is a significant factor in mental decline, amongst other factors. During Covid 19 even official authorities proposed that partners explore sexual activities without direct physical contact.
Then pair this article with the majorly increased numbers of sex toys during the pandemic, and all I can say is we listened to our government and masturbated more. Did they know about these toys before us?
I can’t help but think the answer is yes.
I have been worried about being apart from my guy for long periods, so I am excited knowing I have multiple options.
Don’t get me wrong. I will absolutely miss dick. I have already had some vivid weird dreams where I’m having sex with my boyfriend, and he freezes.
I realize he’s a hologram, and my phone died, and I am left there with blue ovaries and a dead phone. Enough of my weird-ass dreams. You must be dying to know my top favorites.
Drum roll, please! Lovense Lush 3 is my absolute favorite panty-wetting toy.
Second, speaking for my partner, the triple sheet change in one day, hands down, the Onyx+. It’s safe to say he did the laundry that week. So there you have my final picks for the best sex gifts for long-distance relationships.
FAQ
How can I spice up my long-distance relationship?
You can spice up your long-distance relationship by adding some long-distance sex toys to the mix. Maybe try both syncing to an interactive video and just see how dirty it can get.
You can also take a look at our long-distance BDSM relationship ideas for some inspiration or try BDSM sexting.
How do I pamper my girlfriend in a long-distance relationship?
You can pamper your girlfriend in a long-distance relationship by buying her an app-controlled vibrator and planning a hot and steamy virtual play date.