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Last Updated on May 27, 2021

What Spanking Paddle is Best for Me and My Partner?

Who doesn’t love a bit of sexy (or sadistic) spanking in doggy position? When you’re totally aroused, it’s the sexiest thing since French sticks were invented! Spanking is spectacular whether it’s to get each other off, to discipline, or humiliate.

And guess what? 85% of people who have tried BDSM have tried spanking. (1) It’s popular. When exploring kink and BDSM, you want the best bondage kit to suit your BDSM desires.

Wanna know my favorite piece of spanking equipment?

The paddle. I’ve always had a thing for being spanked with leather belts see… BDSM paddles remind me of that. Except, they feel much better than a belt. Bossier. Honestly, some of these are going to blow your mind…

To spank your blood flow to your butt and enjoy that sting, you want designs, materials, and shapes to get you off.

“Which spanking paddle is best?” I hear you shouting! Don’t worry, I’m going to tell you all about the most exciting ones right now…

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Things To Consider When Byuing Spanking Paddle

You want the best spanking paddle? There are a few things to consider.

  • Material
  • Price
  • Size
  • Best Way To Apply BDSM
  • Will Use With Your Partner?

The best paddle material depends on your taste. You can get faux or real leather, sometimes with a combination of satin, ABS, or metal.

You also get wooden paddles which bring the element of weight. You can get them with holes on the surface which alters the feel on your skin.

You might want to know, "What is the best wood to make a spanking paddle?" It really depends on the weight you want and whether you wants holes or perhaps, studs, in the wood too.

Spanking fans often want to know the best wood for a spanking paddle but all material and styles feel great. It often depends on your mood.

Paddles come at a range of prices. You'll definitely find a design and $ price $ that suits you!

The size and shapes of paddles differ. You'll want to consider the length and width as well as how big the spanking surface (the blade) is.

You really need to experiment and communicate with your sub to decide what works. The safe zones for spanking are the fleshy areas of the body: the butt, hips, and thighs.

The best position for spanking with a paddle is doggy. Especially when you're bent over a bench like the Liberator Obeir Spanking Bench.

Premium Spanking Paddle: ElectroShock E-Stim Paddle

The best paddle if you love your BDSM scene to include electrical play is the ElectroShock E-Stim Paddle. 

If you’re a person who wants jolts with their spanks, this will tip you over the edge! The shock will force you to tingle in more ways than you can dream of!

You get the zinging slap from the 12 electro buttons on the edges. There are 5 levels of power (between 124-312V) for you to explore. 

You’ll find the power easy to control using the 3 buttons on the handgrip.

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The ElectroShock E-Stim is the perfect size for your buttocks (14.6″-3.3″). You get a heightened BDSM experience. This toy gives you the ultimate variety when it comes to spanking sensations.

Shock yourself with this sting paddle here!

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Best Lightweight Spanking Paddle: DOMINIX Deluxe Advanced BRAUN Leather Paddle

The ultimate light weight paddle is the sexiest, slimmest one of the bunch: the DOMINIX!

Its luxurious brown color gives you an alternative option to the typical red or black. It feels a little more sophisticated. You’ll enjoy the sharp sting of this long (13″) slim spanking toy!

Flexible leather means it creates an incredible slapping noise on impact. Pain has never sounded so damn good. Bend over, baby, bend over!

Oh! And the DOMINIX has a nice bend to it. When you press it against the surface of your skin after a slap, it feels really really reeeeeeally good.

(Tip? Remember to plan your safe words, Sweeties!)

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The slim-lined DOMINIX creates a sharp sting on your skin. Wonderful for partners who have a little more experience and want more sensation.

Get your loud, slapping sting as soon as next week!

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Best Leather Spanking Paddle: Lovehoney Satin and Leather Spanking Paddle

The best leather paddle for spanking is this unusual one from Lovehoney. Now, the reason you’re going to love it is because it’s a bit different. How?

It’s satin on one side and leather on the other. This means your “spank and sting” sessions vary in sensations. 

By combining the hard sting of leather with soft satin stroking, beginners last longer.

It has a 6-inch handle and wrist loop so your grasp stays secure. 

This ensures the force behind your “swing and spank” stays consistent for as long as you want.

(Tip: Only start spanking once you’re totally aroused. This makes your pain threshold higher!)

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The ideal paddle if you want a variation in sensation. It’s also perfect if you and your sub are new to spanking!

Spank, sting, then soothe your lover’s skin today!

Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!

Bondage Boutique Furry Spanking Paddle

The hottest paddle for spanking and sensory play is the Furry Paddle. This saucy sadistic sex toy feels amazing in your hands as well as on your sub’s thighs, butt, and stomach (stick to the fleshy parts)!

It’s 9″ in length (15″ including the handle) and 3″ wide so your sub feels the impact and weight of your swing over a large portion of their skin! You’ll love the sting and marks it leaves…

It’s made of two types of material. One side is hard, whereas the other is faux fur. This means play can sting or feel comforting and tickly.

In my opinion, this is the best paddle shape for spanking voluptuous butts (like mine). And by the way, it’s a great sexy gift.

(Tip: Role play and dress-up can help you explore spanking more easily.)

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Sex toys with a sting have never looked as stunning as this fluffy paddle. It’s made with two materials, one that punishes while the other comforts. It’s one of the prettiest designs ever!

Bend over and beg for the sting, baby!

Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!

Conclusion: The Best Paddle For Spanking...

If you’re still confused, I’ll give you a little tip, go for the DOMINIX. Its gorgeous brown color looks classy. It leaves a sharp sting that clenches your teeth and it’s a perfect weight: light, so you can slip it into your suitcase easily and take it on holiday!

If you’re a taboo rebel like me, then you’re totally going to love using your new DOMINIX paddle! You know what? There’s a reason people go for BDSM therapy! And the best thing about spanking if you’re in a long-term relationship?

It spices up your love life by turning vanilla sex into something kinky. Surely it’s time to take touch up a notch?

FAQs

Do spanking paddles come in other materials apart from leather?

Yes. A common material is also wood. Both feel incredible. It’s great to have two so you get the choice!

In what way can I introduce spanking paddles into the bedroom?

The best way to introduce sex products into the bedroom is through open communication with your lover. Or you can send a cheeky text with a link to what you fancy buying!

Reference:

  1. https://www.lelo.com/blog/the-bondage-survey-results-bdsm-statistics/