How to cum hands free
Last Updated on September 7, 2023

How to Cum Hands-Free

Have you ever watched Good Luck Chuck and looked at a grapefruit completely different? (Thank you, Stu!)

This is only one of the ways to cum without using your hand, because let’s face it, having sex with the same hand can get old.

If you are looking for ways to give your hand a break and explore other options, I have discovered some interesting ways that guys can get off hands free.

(Don’t worry, girls get just as weird and creative, but that’s a story for another time.) Here are some of the ways to cum hands free.

What Is a Hands Free Orgasm?

A hands free orgasm is the act of achieving an orgasm without touching your genitals. (No touchee touchee!) To do this, you must stimulate your body with touching your penis or vagina.

For hands free self-pleasure you will have to rely on other ways to stimulate your sweet spots. Some of the ways to achieve hands free ejaculation are:

Benefits of Hands Free Orgasms

Like any other orgasm, touch free orgasms will calm you down, turn your frown upside down, improve sleep, and lower your chances of getting prostate cancer. (This is a holistic approach I can get behind.)

Exploring new ways to reach peak sexual satisfaction also allows you to discover new ways to pleasure yourself, offering new levels of ecstasy. (Now I’m in a whole new world…)

Discovering Your Body

Okay, Christopher Columbus, are you ready to explore? Learning your body is an important step in achieving a hands free orgasms or any orgasm for that matter.

Not everyone is stimulated in the same ways or even the same areas. (Yours might be your nipples. Mine is my left pinky toe)

Some common areas to focus on are the upper abdomen and protaste. You may also want to focus on your testicles (if you have them), inner thighs, and stomach. Explore every inch of your body and find what turns you on the most.

What You Need To Reach Orgasm Hands Free

In your quest for achieving a hands free orgasm there are a few things you will need.

Best Hands Free Orgasm Techniques

These are some of the most effective ways to get off without being hands on.

1. Hands free sex toys

There is no shortage of sex toys on the market. (Thank Goodness!) From blow job machines to cock rings to prostate massagers and butt plugs, you can find just about anything (and I mean anything) on the internet.

Using a hands free sex toy is the surest and fastest way to bring on an orgasm. If you are short on time, patience, concentration, or imagination these sex toys will quite literally do all the work for you.

Toys like the Fun Factory Manta – a vibrating stroker or the Onyx – blow job simulator are a guaranteed way to ensure you reach orgasms. If you really want to be lazy you can use a sex toy mount for a completely hands free experience.

Tip: Find sex toys that are versatile to stimulate multiple areas like the penis, perineum, and anus. These toys will help you explore different areas of your body to discover what really gets you going.

2. Sex toy mounts

Most sex toys require that you hold them in place for them to work properly. To free yourself of this daunting task, get a sex toy mount to do it for you.

There many options out there to choose from, so you can find one that works best for you.

Pillows like Liberator Bon Bon or Liberator Wing are great choices for vulva owners (women).

Use the pillow to hold your sex toy in place or position yourself when using a partner. (If your really horny, use them for dry humping)

BonBon Sex Toy Mount blue

Fleshlights, pocket pussies, and sleeves work great for those with a penis. (Boys have a penis. Girls have a vagina) If you are looking for a sturdier surface to grind on, try Liberator Fleshlight Top Dog to simulate doggy style.

Speaking of mounts – there’s one very special mount that penis owners might especially like. I’m talking about the Fleshlight Shower Mount. This toy will turn taking a shower into an unforgettable experience.

3. Hands free wearable sex toys

Wearable sex toys allow you to pleasure yourself while keeping your hands free. These handy sex toys are excellent for public play, staying in your erogenous zones while you move around.

For men, there are options such as Lovense Hush – a vibrating butt plugs or cock rings like Fun Factoy NOS or MysteryVibe Tenuto. For women, try Lovense Lush – Wearable egg vibrator or We-Vibe Sync – clitoris and g spot stimulator. These toys are sure to hit all the right spots.

For more information, read our Lovense Lush 3 review.

4. Suction cup dildo

If you prefer penetration toys to stimulate the Prostate or g spot (yes, it does exist. You just haven’t found it), a suction cup dildo is the way to go.

A suction cup dildo will attach to most flat surfaces like a wall, the edge of the bathtub, or the ceiling if your Spiderman.

There are many options on the market to choose from. Look for dildos made of body safe silicone for a worry free experience.

Depending on who you ask, there are a few choices of these dildos that stand out from the crowd. Lovehoney Curved is a favorite for those looking to stimulate the prostate. For those who want a more realistic toy, Vixskin Mustang never disappoints.

5. Thrusters

Thrusters take the dildo a step further to offer more bang for your buck. Velvet Thrusters offers a line of thrusters to fit everyone needs. Theses thrusters have 3.5⅕ inches insertable length and can move up to 140 strokes per minute. When fully charged, they will provide 8 hours on non stop Fun. (Are you up to the challenge?)

6. Fucking machines

lovense sex machine

If you are the type of person who likes to lay back and someone (or something) do all the work, investing in a fucking machine is the best options.

These babies allow even the laziest of times to be good ones. Use your favorite dildo or sleeve with it. Then lay back and enjoy the ride.

There are lots of options available to fit your needs and your budget. Hismith Fucking Machine and Lovense Sex Machine are wonderful choices that won’t break the bank.

You’re not sure which sex machine to choose? Our guide might help!

7. Prostate or perineum massagers

In case Biology class is a distant memory or one you never had a chance to form: The Perineum is the small area between your scrotum or vulva and anus, often referred to as a Taint or Gooch.

The Prostate gland produces fluid to nourish and protect sperm. With the right kind of stimulation the prostate will also give you the best orgasm you have ever had.

How do you find your prostate? To put it simply, stick your finger up your butt and move it around. You’ll find it. The prostate is about the size of a walnut and located right in front of the rectum.

Prostate massagers specifically targets the prostate to provide a hands free prostate orgasm that will blow your mind. Some prostate toys vibrate while others just provide pressure to send you over the edge. Find one that works for you.

For perineum stimulation, using a vibrating egg on the sensitive area will bring on the most intense orgasms.

8. Flex your PC muscles

Your Pubococcygeus muscle is not only difficult to spell (I cut and pasted it) it is also the muscle you squeeze to hold your pee. (I don’t have to pee. I don’t have to pee)

Flexing your pc muscles repeatedly can be enough to bring on an intense orgasm. (If it doesn’t work do kegel exercises to strengthen your PC muscles)

9. Humping and grind

If you are really sensitive to physical contact, dry humping or stimulating the penis with a soft fabric might be enough to do the trick. Just remember to find a fabric that won’t irritate the skin. (Rashes are not fun or sexy)

Since things are bound to get a little messy, choose a fabric you won’t mind getting dirty. Silk-like material or polyester generally work the best. Run the fabric over you penis lightly for stimulation. (Please remember to wash the fabric when you are done)

10. Orgasmic binaural beats

Binaural Beats can affect cause arousal and even orgasms for some people.

All you need is a pair of headphones and YouTube or Spotify to experience the sexual pleasure these special sound frequencies can offer.

For binaural beats to work you must listen to the recording from beginning to end without skipping any parts. (Not for the impatient)

The frequency sequence creates a gradual build up of arousal that stimulates the brain in just the right way to produce sexual climax. Give a try. What do you have to lose?

11. Erotic hypnosis or meditation

If you prefer a quieter approach to getting off or are a more spiritual person, using erotic hypnosis or meditation might be a more effective hands free technique.

To do this, you will listen to a sexy male or female voice as they put you in a hypnotic trance and guide you through the stages of arousal. Follow the instructions they give you and submit fully to the experience for the best results. (Unless they ask for money)

Take deep soothing breaths while you focus on the sensations happening in your body; the heartrate speeding up or the blood flow to your genitals. (It is sexier than it sounds.)

With enough practice, you will be able to achieve orgasm using justyour mind. (Now that is talent!)

12. Tantric exercises

Ever seen American Pie? (If not, watch it!)

Tantra is an anciet spiritual tradition similar to yoga. With a use of spiritual and physical practices to obtain concious sexuality – engaging in sexual activity without ejaculating.

By delaying your orgasm, you allow the sexual tension to build up and eventually lead to a full body orgasm that you will never forget.

In order to achieve this kind of orgasm, you need patience, the right mind set, and some serious self control.

13. Water play

Plain and simple – use the shower head to masturbate. This is a technique mainly used by women, but men can use the same technique to achieve orgasm without using your hands.

How To Cum Hands Free Step By Step

  1. Find a private place – You don’t need an audience. Find somewhere private and comfortable, with a lock on the door preferably.
  2. Set the mood – Light some candles or lock the door and turn the lights down low. Put some music on that’s soft and slow. Whatever will help you get in the right mindset for masturbation.
  3. Prepare yourself – Breathe deeply to relax yourself or maybe stretch.
  4. Think naughty – Put that dirty mind of yours to work and let your imagination run wild. If you are lacking in imagination, try using your favorite form of stimulation.
  5. Squeeze your PC muscles – To achieve a throbbing sensation on your pelvic floor, clench your pc muscles, gradually increasing length and intensity.
  6. Meditate and visualize – If your lucky by step 5 you are already done. If not, use your imagination and fantasize to push you closer to the edge.
  7. Let it go – Yes, Elsa, it’s time to let it go. Flex your pelvic muscles faster to bring on ejaculation.

Exercises To Help Achieve Hands Free Orgasms


Okay young Padawan, I have given you all the skills you need to achieve a hands free orgasm. The rest is up to you. (Immense pleasure you will have.)