How To Use A Vibrator On a Man: A Guide to Pleasure and Fun
I was browsing some sizzlin’ hot vibes online when I stumbled upon a comment from a customer who was all about how her man LOVED it when she brought out the big guns.
I was like, “Yeah baby, I feel you” Cause let me tell you, my partner, and I had a similar experience. At first, he was all like, “Whaaaat? No wayyyy!”
Cause you see, he was a bit of a conservative cutie pie at the beginning. But you should see him now…
We embrace everything that sets our bed on fire, and let me tell you, a little buzzin’ never hurt anybody.
So listen up: if you wanna heat things with your boo, you need some advice on including male vibes in your lovemaking. Stay with me to find out more!
Get Your Man Used to the Vibration
Let the fun begin! Start by exploring your partner’s body with the vibrator, moving it around lightly and gradually increasing the intensity.
Trace circles around their body, paying particular attention to sensitive areas.
Experiment with different speeds and vibrations, pressing it against their skin and moving it around in small circles or up and down.
Get creative and use the vibrator to trace exciting patterns on your partner’s body or to give them a stimulating massage.
Ask your partner what they find pleasurable and use that feedback to improve the experience.
Explore different parts of their body, such as their chest, inner thighs, or back.
With each stroke and vibration, get ready for an unforgettable pleasure.
Use Lube
Lubrication helps to reduce friction and make the experience more pleasurable. It also helps to reduce the risk of irritation or chafing, which can occur when using a vibrator on a penis.
Whether you choose water-based, silicone-based, or oil-based, each type of lubricant can provide a unique experience.
Some have special properties that can give you a warming or tingly sensation, making the experience even more pleasurable.
Start Low and Slow
Before you head in, take it slow – here’s why!
You want to ensure your man doesn’t feel any pain – while vibrators can create some incredible sensations, they can also be too intense if you rush into them.
Starting slowly gives you time to adjust and find the right intensity for the penis owner. It helps him build up to the level of pleasure he desires.
You have complete control over how far and fast it goes, ensuring his experience is enjoyable and not overwhelming.
Finally, it allows you to explore different techniques and configurations – you can try different speeds, patterns, and intensities to find what works best for him.
Taking it slow is key to unlocking all the potential a vibrator can bring!
Penis Play
Start by using the vibrator on the trunk of the penis, then gradually move to the head. The head is more sensitive than the shaft, so take it slow.
For extra sensitivity, wrap the vibrator in soft material, like women’s panties, to minimize vibration on the testicles.
As you move the vibrator up and down the shaft, you can also add a little pressure to the head of the penis to heighten sensations.
Why not try different settings and speeds to discover what tickles your partner’s fancy the most?
Oral Sex Delight
Have you heard of oral vibrators? They look similar to dual vibrators, such as the Lovense Lush.
How to use them?
You attach it to the inside of your cheek, and the vibrating tip is inside your mouth.
When you take a penis into your mouth, the vibrator will lightly touch it.
Believe me; you will be giving your partner an orgasmic experience.
Remember: Talk is Key
Communication is key, especially when it comes to using sex toys. Talk with your partner about it before getting handsy with that buzzing buddy.
Ask if they’re down to try something new and bring a vibrator into the mix.
Trust us; many penis owners are curious about it and the pleasure they can get.
But if they’re not feeling it, no worries! Explain how exploring with a vibrator can discover new erogenous zones (start with wands) and enhance your mutual pleasure.
Conclusion
From penetrative sex to prostate stimulation and mutual masturbation, using a vibrator on a man is a… Hah, check it yourself.
A toy on a penis can increase blood flow and stimulate sensitive bits like never before.
Experiment with different types of vibrators, from ones that focus on penetration to others that target the mouth. The vibrations will send shivers down your man’s spine and make him feel good all over.
Start slow with vibrators of all shapes and sizes, focusing on the penis shaft and inner thigh while exploring different sensations and vibration patterns to discover what feels good.
Don’t forget to check out vibrating masturbators, cock rings, and clitoral vibrators – for adding to the pleasure and creating intimate moments between you and him.
So, take it slow, and revel in the body discoveries, sensations, and moments that await you!
FAQ
Can men enjoy the use of a vibrator?
Yes, men can use immense pleasure from vibrators, as they can stimulate sensitive areas and enhance sexual experiences.
However, preferences vary, so it’s important to communicate with your partner about their comfort levels and desires.
To find out what might be your thing, read our guides on the best remote control vibrators and the best app-controlled vibrators.
How should I introduce a vibrator into our intimate moments?
You should by discussing the idea with your partner. If they are open to it, gradually introduce the vibrator into your intimate activities, using it gently to explore different parts of the body.
Remember, starting slow and focusing on areas like the penis shaft and inner thighs can heighten the pleasure.
If you’re not familiar with vibrators, I suggest you make yourself familiar with our ‘How to use a vibrator for the first time‘ guide.
Where should I use the vibrator on a man?
You can use the vibrator on various parts of a man’s body, but focusing on sensitive areas like the penis shaft, the head of the penis, and the inner thighs often yields the most pleasure.
Vibrators can also be used during oral sex or for prostate stimulation.
What type of lubricant should I use with a vibrator?
The type of lubricant you choose depends on your personal preference. You can choose from water-based, silicone-based, or oil-based lubricants.
Some lubricants offer warming or tingling sensations for enhanced pleasure. Remember, lubrication helps to reduce friction and make the experience more enjoyable.
