Tantric sex is the weaving of energy. Its goal is focused on connection to yourself and to your partner. Tantric sex is concerned with erotic experience and pleasure as a whole, rather than orgasm as the goal. Tantric sex is a journey of exploration and creating intimacy with your lover. It is a slow, sensual, meditative sexual connection.

Why should we try Tantric Sex?

Tantric sex awakens you. When you practice it, you become in-tune with yourself, your body, and that of your partner. It brings a more sensitive and sensory experience of pleasure and becomes completely satisfying. When you’re able to channel your Tantric energy outside of the bedroom, you become more aware, conscious, and more productive.

How to perform Tantra?

You need to connect mind and body, so start with a 10-15 minute meditation (yoga and yogic breathing are great ways to do this). Create a beautiful, calm space that stimulates all the senses. Consider lighting (lamps, candles), scent (incense, essential oils), touch and comfort (sex furniture, blankets), and taste (fruits) to provide the perfect sensory environment. If you’re alone try slow self-massage. If you’re with a partner, spend a long time massaging and exploring each other’s body using the things in the environment. Really pay attention to what feels good for you and your lover, then respond to this. And remember, lovelies: “Dating is a muscle, Flirting is a muscle, Sex is a muscle. You have to exercise all three.” – Emily Morse (Doctor in Human Sexuality).

by Deja Nadinne

A Couple's Guide to Choosing the Perfect Sex Chair

Let’s face it, shopping for furniture rarely tops the list of exhilarating couple activities. You wander through endless aisles of sofas and tables, debating over shades of beige that all look suspiciously the same.

But what if I told you there’s a shopping trip that can not only brighten up your living space but also add a spark to your love life? Yes, I’m talking about the adventurous expedition of choosing the perfect sex chair!

Picking out a sex chair isn’t your typical IKEA affair – it’s more like selecting the ideal partner for a tango: it’s got to have the right moves, the perfect fit, and, of course, be able to handle a bit of a spin.

Understanding the Basics. What's a Sex Chair?

A sex chair, is not just a piece of furniture; it’s a gateway to new realms of intimacy. It’s designed to support and enhance various sexual positions, making them more comfortable, enjoyable, and, dare I say, adventurous.

And let’s be honest, anything that promises to reduce the ‘ouch’ factor in certain positions while increasing the ‘oh my’ factor is a welcome addition to any bedroom (or living room, we don’t judge here).

Read our detailed article explaining what a sex chair is.

Size Matters… But So Does Storage

Yes, size does matter when it comes to sex chairs, but not in the way you might think. It’s all about how much space you have in your love nest.

You don’t want your new toy to take up so much room that you have to practice parkour just to get to the bed. And let’s talk storage.

Unless you’re planning to use your sex chair as a conversation starter at your next dinner party, you’ll want something that can be tucked away discreetly.

Durability: Because Breaking Only Hearts is Acceptable

Imagine this: you’re in the throes of passion, and suddenly, there’s a crack, a thud, and you’re both on the floor. Not the climax you were hoping for, right? Ensure your sex chair is sturdy. It should withstand all the love you’re going to throw at it—literally.

Style: Make It a Part of Your Love Den

A sex chair doesn’t have to stick out like a sore thumb. There are options out there that blend seamlessly with your bedroom decor. It could even double as an innocent-looking reading chair. The unsuspecting in-law might sit on it, none the wiser. (Now, there’s a thought to giggle about.)

Fun Add-Ons: It's Not Just About Sitting

Now, let’s spice things up a bit. Some sex chairs come with exciting add-ons. Ever heard of a dildo rocker? It’s a game-changer. It combines the functionality of a sex chair with the thrill of a rideable dildo. It’s like a rodeo, but more… intimate. This could be a great option if you’re looking for something that brings an extra level of excitement.

Budget: Love Don't Cost a Thing, But Sex Chairs Do

As much as we’d like to live in a world where love is the only currency, the reality is your sex chair is going to cost you a few bucks.

Set a budget and stick to it. You want a chair that leaves you breathless for the right reasons, not because you’re worried about how you’re going to pay rent.

The Test Drive: Trying Before Buying

Okay, so you can’t exactly take a sex chair for a test drive in the store (if you can, please tell me where this magical place is). But you can do your research. Read reviews, watch videos, and ask questions. The more you know, the better your choice will be.

Make It a Couple's Decision

Remember, this is about enhancing your relationship, so make the decision together. It’s a perfect opportunity for a fun, open, and maybe slightly naughty conversation with your partner. Who knows, discussing the specifics might be a form of foreplay!

Conclusion

So there you have it, a guide to choosing the perfect sex chair for you and your partner. Remember, this is supposed to be fun, adventurous, and a little bit cheeky. It’s about exploring new territories in your relationship and having a good laugh along the way.

Take a look at our sex chair positions ideas.

FAQ

Will owning a sex chair make my bedroom look like a set from a porn movie?

Not at all! Modern sex chairs come in all shapes and styles, many of which blend seamlessly with regular home decor. Think of it as a sultry secret hidden in plain sight.

Is assembly required, and if so, is it complicated?

Some assembly may be required, but it’s usually straightforward. Think of it as building your own little love nest. Plus, assembling it together can be a fun bonding experience!

Can sex chairs accommodate all body types?

Absolutely! Many sex chairs are designed with versatility in mind, catering to a wide range of body types and sizes. Always check the weight capacity and dimensions to ensure comfort and safety.

Are there any health benefits to using a sex chair?

You bet! Aside from the obvious benefits of increased intimacy and pleasure, sex chairs can reduce strain on the back and joints, making your escapades more comfortable and sustainable.