How To Use Sex Toys

Oh, hello there, adventurous soul! Looks like someone’s ready to join the fun and games of the sex toy world!?

Don’t sweat it, I won’t tease you for being fashionably late to the toy-tastic fiesta.

I mean, it’s not like the rest of us have been happily vibin’ for ages or anything. Oh wait, I think I have. Oops, my bad.

Anyway, I totally feel ya when it comes to being a lost pup in the realm of pleasure gadgets. Back in my day, we didn’t have fancy internet tutorials or helpful blog posts to guide us.

Nah, we had to trust our gut and do a whole bunch of experimentation. But fear not, my dear lost soul. I am here to guide you through the treacherous waters of sex toy usage.

With my expert tips, you’ll be a pro in no time. Let’s fetch our playful gadgets and kick off the fun!!

How to Prepare Adult Toys for Use?

First things first, give your toy a good once-over to check for any defects or damages. We don’t want any surprises popping up mid-play, do we?

Next up, it’s time to give your toy a bath. Yes, you heard me right – a bath! Give it a good scrub down with some toy cleaner or warm soapy water. Trust me, your toy will appreciate it, and so will your sensitive bits.

Now, let’s give your toy a little sip of energy and get it revved up for some fun. Plug it in and let it charge up (except for the first time, of course – we all know the excitement of a new toy can’t wait!).

Who wants to sit twiddling their thumbs, waiting for their plaything to juice up when they’re ready to have a blast? And as a cherry on top, let’s sprinkle some slip-n-slide action in there!

And voila! You’re all set and ready to explore the wonderful world of adult toys. Remember, keep your toys in good shape, and they’ll return the favor (if you catch my drift).

How to Use Sex Toys For the First Time?

Alrighty then, let’s start it slow and steady. Don’t charge in like kiddo hyped up on sugar.

Dip your toes in, explore your options, find what floats your boat, and roll with that groove.

And always remember, lube is your trusty sidekick for a smooth ride.

Now, here’s a piece of advice – try to masturbate without toys at first. Yes, I mean it. The best way to know your body is to explore it naturally, without any external aid.

Once you get a feel for what makes you tick, then you can bring in the big guns – your sex toys.

Oh, and one more thing – don’t focus on achieving an orgasm.

Toy play is a learning curve, and it’s all about discovering what feels good for you. So, take it easy, and have fun exploring.

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How to Masturbate with Sex Toys

Now, let’s talk about the juicy stuff – how to use sex toys.don’t forget to enjoy the sexy times, whether solo or with a buddy!

Grab a sexy blanket, ignite some candles, slip into something saucy, and let the good vibes flow.

And when it comes to playtime tools, we all have our faves! For example, I love the Lelo Ora, which imitates oral sex; the Penguin, which looks so cute and works divinely; and the Womanizer Premium 2, which is a game-changer.

I also love nipple clamps from Lovehoney, but we’ll talk more about them next time.

If you’re feeling adventurous, try using an adult toy with a mount. It’s a great way to free up your hands and explore different positions.

And if you’re feeling really daring, take your toys to the shower. It’s a wild ride into a fresh dimension of fun.

There are oodles of toys out there to tickle your fancy, so boredom can go take a hike! From vibrators to anal beads, each toy offers a unique experience that can take you to new heights of pleasure.

So let’s dive in and discover how to play with the different sex toy types!

Vibrators: The Classic Choice

Vibrators are the OG sex toy and for a good reason. These buzzing beauties come in all shapes and sizes, from slim and trim to plump and pumped.

Experiment with different vibration patterns and intensities to find your sweet spot.

Wand Massagers: Power Up Your Playtime

Wand massagers are like the superheroes of the sex toy world. With powerful motors and broad heads, they can deliver intense vibrations to any part of your body.

Whether you’re using it for a sensual massage or an explosive orgasm, a wand massager is sure to please.

For G-spot and A-spot: The Sweet Spots

Good Vibes G-Spot Bundle

If you want to reach your G-spot or A-spot, there are some toys created just for that purpose – they’ll make you feel really spot-on.

These toys usually have a curved or angled shape that targets those pleasure zones.

Clitoral Stimulators: The Clit-Ticklers

For those who like to give their clitoris some attention, there are plenty of playthings specifically designed for that pleasure point!

From bullet vibrators to air-pulse stimulators, these toys offer a range of sensations that can bring you to climax in no time.

Lelo Sona Cruise 2 purple

For P-spot: Prostate Playtime

Prostate play can be a game-changer for anyone with a prostate. Toys like the Loki Wave offer intense vibrations and a unique waving motion that can lead to mind-blowing orgasms.

Rabbit: Two for the Price of One

Blush Hop Rave Rabbit Plus

Do you know what’s like a sex toy superhero? Rabbit vibrators!

They’re like a magical mashup of a shaft for your inner desires and a clitoral stimulator for your outer bliss.

And they come in all sorts of fun shapes and sizes to match your mood and vibe.

Find out how to use a rabbit vibrator!

Bullet: Small But Mighty

Don’t underestimate the power of a bullet vibrator!

These tiny toys may be small, but they pack a punch. They’re perfect for solo play or for use during partner play.

Personal Massager: For Full-Body Pleasure

If you’re in the market for a joy-bringing gadget that can pamper every inch of your physique, a personal massager is definitely the tool you need.

These toys usually have a large head that can be used for deep tissue massage or for erotic stimulation.

Remote Controlled: Hands-Free Fun

If you’re up for some serious fun, remote-controlled toys are the bomb-diggity!

These gadgets let you go on an adventure solo or with a buddy, giving you a chance to discover new thrills without lifting a finger.

Sounds good? Check out our guides to the best app-controlled vibrators and the best remote control vibrators

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Kegel Balls: For Stronger Orgasms

Kegel balls are like a workout for your pelvic floor muscles. By using them regularly, you can strengthen your muscles and have more intense orgasms.

Not to mention, these cutes come in all sorts of shapes and sizes to tickle your fancy.

Dildos and Strap-Ons: The Realistic Experience

Buck Vixskin Realistic Silicone Dildo

If you’re on the hunt for a plaything that imitates the genuine deal, dildos and strap-ons are the bees knees.

They come in all shapes and sizes, from realistic to wacky, so you can score the one that suits you best.

Are you new to the dildo world? Make sure you know how to use a dildo, then take a look at some of the best beginner dildos. Good luck!

Shake Your Booty: Anal Playtime!

Let’s start with some backdoor action! From prostate massagers to butt plugs and anal beads, get ready for some serious fun!

Ring My Bell: Cock Rings Galore!

Keep it hard and strong with some cock rings! These babies are perfect for solo play or partner time.

Experiment with different materials, textures, and vibrations to find your favorite.

SVAKOM Winni Remote-Controlled Vibrating Cock Ring cherry colour

Nip It in the Bud: Suckers for Your Nipples!

Looking for some extra nipple stimulation? Look no further than nipple suckers!

These toys create a gentle suction that can make your nipples feel extra sensitive and ready for playtime.

Mastering Masturbation: Time for Some Self-Love!

It’s time to give yourself some attention! Masturbators come in all shapes and sizes, from sleeves to vibrating eggs.

Find your perfect match and give yourself some serious pleasure.

Bondage Fun: Restraints for All Occasions!

Advanced bondage set

Ready to add some kink to your playtime? Restraints can be a great way to explore BDSM play, and they come in all forms.

Try out cuffs, rope, or even under-the-bed restraints. But first, read our bondage for beginners guide.

Whack-a-Butt: Playing with BDSM Tools!

Get ready for some serious fun with BDSM tools! From floggers to whips and crops to paddles, there’s something for everyone.

Whether you’re into light spanking or serious impact play, these toys can take you there.

Best Positions to Try with a Sex Toy

Here are some of the best positions to try with your trusty toy:

So, which position will you try first? The possibilities are endless when you add a sex toy to the mix.

Get ready for some serious fun and adventure!

Now let’s explore some of the best toys to use during couple-play. From temperature play to prostate stimulation, I’ve got you covered.

For those who love a bit of temperature play, I highly recommend glass dildos. Not only do they look gorgeous, but they’re perfect for exploring different sensations. Just make sure to handle it with care!

If you’re looking for some G-spot stimulation, then it really depends on your anatomy. Personally, I adore the Real Cock 2 dildo for those explosive squirting moments and the Soraya 2 rabbit vibrator for some extra G-spot goodness.

For A-spot stimulation, I love bullet vibrators for shallow penetration.

And when it comes to prostate play, our male expert, Alex, recommends prostate stimulators like the Loki 2. Trust me, he knows what he’s talking about!

Now, let’s talk about anal play. Butt plugs or anal beads? It all depends on personal preference.

But if you’re looking for some oral sex fun, then the Womanizer Premium 2 or Lelo Ora are definitely worth trying. And if you’re looking for a blowjob toy, Alex’s best blowjob machines guide recommends the Kiiroo Keon masturbator.

For those who want to explore double penetration, lesbians can try a double-ended dildo, while others can use a combination of a G-spot vibe and a butt plug.

Finally, let’s get playful with nipple play! If you’re a fan (and who isn’t?), then you’ll definitely want to grab some nipple suckers and give them a whirl.

Feeling daring? Maybe it’s time to strap on a harness and experiment with a strap-on dildo or nipple suckers. It’s all about finding the perfect harness to suit your style.


Now, go forth and explore the wonderful world of sex toys with confidence and curiosity.

Remember, there’s no right or wrong way to play with your new toy as long as it brings you pleasure and happiness. So, let’s keep the good times rolling and embrace the joy that comes with experimenting with our bodies. Happy playtime!


Are sex toys safe to use?

If you’re using them as intended, then yes, they can be safe. Just make sure to follow the instructions and clean them properly.

How do I choose the right sex toy for me?

Choosing the right sex toy is like choosing the right flavor of ice cream. It’s all about personal preference.

Do you want something sweet and simple or something that will make your taste buds tingle with excitement? Read reviews, do your research, and trust your gut.

Our guide to the best sex toys might help too.

What are some of the benefits of using sex toys for couples?

Using sex toys can add some spice to your love life, help you explore new things together, and increase intimacy and communication. Plus, it’s just plain fun!

How do I clean and sanitize my sex toys?

Think of cleaning your sex toys like giving them a bubble bath. And don’t forget to rinse them off thoroughly!

How do I use lubrication with sex toys?

Using lube with sex toys is like using ketchup on fries – it just makes everything better. Just make sure to use water-based lube if your toy is made of silicone.

Can I use sex toys with a partner?

Of course! Sharing is caring, after all. Just make sure to communicate and discuss your boundaries and preferences beforehand.

How do I store my sex toys?

Store your sex toys in a cool, dry place – just like you would with your favorite snacks.

Can I use sex toys anally?

Yes, but make sure to use toys specifically designed for anal play, and always use plenty of lube. And remember – safety first!

What should I do if I experience discomfort or pain while using a sex toy?

Stop immediately and take a break. If the discomfort persists, consult a healthcare professional.

If you want to read more about possible reasons for pain, read this article: Why is my clit sore after using a vibrator?