Why is My Clit Sore After Using a Vibrator?
Let’s be honest. We are all friends here. This is a no-judgment zone. Sex toys can improve your sex life. They can also keep from repeating some errors in judgment. (Ahem…Shawn).
Vibrators are lovely little gadgets that I am ecstatic were invented. Now every once in a while, I might get a little carried away and experience some discomfort afterward. I’ve been single for a while. (Don’t judge me)
Since I am an expert (and you can’t prove I’m not), I will explain why pain can occur and what you should do about it.
Many women may not like direct clitoral stimulation because of the sensitivity of their nerve endings. The clitoris is extremely sensitive. (as if you didn’t know) That is why a small piece of skin covers most of your clitoris, called the clitoral hood protects the nerve endings in the clitoris.
Touching the clitoris over the clitoral hood, instead of directly contacting it, can give sensations with none of the pain or sensitivity issues that come with direct contact.
You don’t have to touch the clit itself. Real life is not like porn, where they constantly expose the clit for stimulation. You should also know that glory holes aren’t always sexy, babysitters are usually of limits, and pizza delivery guys are not playthings. (Most of the time)
Causes of Clitoris Pain
If you have clitoral pain or numbness after masturbation, you might be worried about what this means. There are a few different reasons you are experiencing these symptoms. You’re a freak! Stop touching yourself! I’m joking. I am the Queen of Freaks, so you’re in good company.
Soreness and sensitivity around the clit after using a vibrator are not uncommon. Don’t freak out vibrator users. Although it is possible, it doesn’t mean there is permanent damage or a severe medical condition.
Oversensitivity, allergies to material or lube, and an underlying health condition can cause this problem. Here’s what you need to know about why your clit might be sore after using a vibrator.
The Vibrations Might Be Too Strong
There are many types of vibrators available, with varying levels of vibration intensity and in different shapes and sizes. Trust me.
I have a vast collection. (They have names too)
Higher settings can be pretty intense for some vibrator users and may irritate or even chafe in the area around your clitoris, so don’t get carried away.
That is not a good feeling, and hiding the discomfort is hard. Do you want to explain why you are walking funny or dressing like a 90’s rapper?
Start slow and gradually increase the intensity as your body becomes used to the sensation.
Start with the lowest setting and move up slowly until you find a comfortable level. It’s also important to use lubricant when using a vibrator.
The right lube can help reduce friction and make the experience more pleasurable.
Allergic Reaction
Another possible cause of soreness after using a vibrator is that the vibration may have caused some minor irritation to the skin of your vagina. This could be because of friction from the vibrator against your skin or an allergic reaction to materials in the vibrator.
Contact dermatitis or other skin conditions can occur after vibrator use and make you uncomfortable. It is often made worse by wearing tight clothing. (Hoochie Mamas Beware)
To avoid this, try switching to a vibrator made with hypoallergenic materials. You should always look for sex toys made with body-safe, medical-grade materials.
Some of the cheaper vibes can be made of toxic material. To avoid having to explain to a medical professional that you are allergic to your sex toy, buy better quality sex toys. It is worth it, and they will last longer. Mine have outlasted more than a few relationships.
Finally, it’s vital to make sure your sex toy is clean before use. Bacteria and other microorganisms can build up on the surface of a vibrator over time, leading to infection and inflammation if not properly cleaned before use.
Make sure to wash your vibrator with warm water and soap before each use to keep it clean and safe. (Don’t be gross)
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Infection or Health Issues
If you experience pain around your clitoris, it could also be a symptom of a more serious medical condition.
If your clitoral area remains swollen and tender even after taking a break from sex toys, you may have a more serious problem.
Severe clitoral pain may be a sign of medical conditions such as infection, vaginitis (inflammation of the vagina), urinary tract infections (UTIs), or sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
If I get an STI from my vibrator, I will lose my…mind. (is nothing sacred?)
To determine if your clitoris pain is serious, you should talk to your OB/GYN. Don’t worry. I used to work in a hospital, so I know they have heard it all.
I have seen things you wouldn’t believe and of course, I would never tell cause that would be wrong.
The bottom line is your sexual health is important. Don’t take any chances. (only you can prevent a painful crotch)
Overuse
While there’s no denying that sex toys can take pleasure levels up several notches during partnered sex or solo play sessions, it’s still important not to overdo it! Listen closely to your body. If you become overly sensitive while using a certain toy, it’s probably best to put it aside until the feeling disappears.
In other words, Put Down The Vibrator and Step Away. This gives your body time to relax and allows you to enjoy sexual pleasure without any pain or discomfort getting in the way. I know this can be hard, but it’s for the best.
Dead Vagina Syndrome
Although rare, using a vibrator can cause Dead Vagina Syndrome and decreased sensitivity (numbness), affecting sexual arousal (less orgasms).
The name dead vagina syndrome alone scares me. It’s not something you want to experience or explain to your partner. (it’s not you, it’s my dead pussy)
If you have experienced the death of your vagina, there is hope. All you have to do is Cool It With The Masturbation!
Make a friend, get a hobby, have more sex, or use your fingers.
Wrap Up
So what have we learned?
- A numb and painful clitoris is not fun. It can make it difficult to orgasm and affect your sex life.
- Check your settings. They may be too intense. Take it slow.
- You’re a freak who is too attached to your vibrators. You need a time out!
- Your sexual health is important. Don’t hesitate to see your doctor.
- Check the materials your sex toys are made of. Remember where they are going.
- Dead Vagina Syndrome is real and you don’t want it. It means your pussy is dead.
