Reach Explosive Orgasms with the Hottest Sex Room Toys Ideas
I don’t know about you, but the world is an infinitely better place with sex toys in it.
This realization prompted me and my partner to embark on a “gotta catch ’em all” journey to seek out the best sex toys in the land.
Like a couple of horny Indiana Joneses, we explored the deepest trenches of the interwebs to find the perfect toys to spice up our bed ventures.
And I’m proud to say our research bore fruit (and a ton of toe-curling orgasms)!
Now, whatever my ex used to say about me, I’m really not a selfish guy, far from it. In fact, I selflessly want to share everything I’ve learned over the course of my toy-hunting missions with you!
So, strap-on… sorry, I mean, strap yourself in as I take you through the lush world of sex toys and give you my honest, post-nut-clarity-boosted opinion on them.
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Best for Clitoral Stimulation: Womanizer Premium 2
This right here is the crème de la crème of clitoral stimulation. And you best believe it’s going to make you cream and-a cream!
With Womanizer’s insanely brilliant Pleasure Air Technology and a dozen intensity levels, you will absolutely need a mop after you’re done with this toy.
And you don’t have to take my word for it, either.
This was one of the toys (1) that Melanie Rose – a famed interior designer who stars in Netflix’s How to Build a Sex Room – included in a room for a couple’s sexy time in Episode 2!
You can find more information about the product in our Womanizer Premium 2 review.
Pros
- Intense, contactless clitoral stimulation
- Multiple vibration patterns so that "she" doesn't get bored
- Waterproof so you can play with yourself in the bath
- So quiet that everyone else in the house will think you're just sleeping!
Cons
- Higher price point
- Limited internal stimulation
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
Best for Anal Play: b-Vibe Snug Plug
Feel fulfilled (and filled, come to that) with this ultra-snug plug from b-Vibe.
With its enticing torpedo shape and body-safe silicone design, this is a plug you can literally wear all day, regardless of what you do.
Pro-tip: if you are a motorcycle rider, man are you in for the ride of your life if you’ve got this inside you!
Yet another toy that was featured by Melanie in How to Build a Sex Room (Episode 1, for those interested), this butt plug will hit all the right spots.
Read also: Is Netflix “How to Build a sex room” real?
Pros
- Graduated sizes mean you can start as a "butt plug newbie" and work your way up to "butt plug badass"!
- Comfortable and body-safe silicone material to let you literally dance around with it inside
- Convenient retrieval ring lets you take it out once you've had your fun with it
- Comes with a discreet carry bag that lets you take it with you anywhere, even your grandma's place!
Cons
- Stiff, flared base might be uncomfortable for some
- Not exactly beginner-friendly
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
Best for Partnered Sex: Tor 3
The first time I used the Tor 3 vibrating cock ring from Lelo to go to pound town, I found myself hoping and praying that it could just magically become a part of my penis.
Sadly, I looked down only to find my clearly ring-less member.
But that’s okay because as long as Lelo doesn’t discontinue this vibrating ring or something (please don’t, pretty please), I’m a content man.
This is honestly hands-down one of the best penis rings I’ve ever had the pleasure of using.
With app-based remote control, eight different vibration modes, and an uber-smooth silicone design, this cock ring took penetrative sex to a whole other dimension for me and my partner.
She couldn’t stop moaning, I couldn’t stop groaning….you get the idea.
Pro-tip: take advantage of its water-resistant nature to have the most mind-blowing shower sex of your life!
Another pro-tip: teach your penis-carrying partner how much fun blowjobs can really be by putting this cock ring on him before you go down on him.
Read our Tor 2 vs Tor 3 comparison!
Pros
- Dual stimulation leaves both you and your partner moaning in ecstasy
- Adjustable fit, so regardless of how you measure up, each thrust will feel incredible
- Powerful vibrations with multiple patterns so you can keep yourself (or your partner) guessing
Cons
- May require experimentation to find the ideal fit
- Not suitable for solo use
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
Best for Couples: We-Vibe Chorus
Yet another star from Episode 2 of How to Build a Sex Room (man, Melanie has great taste!), the We-Vibe Chorus is the reason why my partner couldn’t stop giggling and blushing during our last trip to the supermarket.
With the hands-free vibrator inserted snugly inside her, I fiddled with the remote control in my hand and watched with unsuppressed glee as she struggled to walk through aisles or form coherent sentences.
Needless to say, this level of foreplay and build-up of anticipation led to us having the wildest night of our lives back in the comfort of our room!
With its two motors and incredibly adjustable design, we have always found it a delight to use, especially when we need to spice things up during intercourse.
The only thing I would change about this wearable vibrator is the intensity of its stimulation, as we felt that it was a bit on the weaker side.
Overall, though, a pretty decent toy for partnered play!
Pros
- Designed for couples' play so you can spice things up with him/her
- Flexible and adjustable so everyone gets to play (*wink*)
- Dual stimulation leaves both of you gasping and sighing
- Remote control and app connectivity let your partner give you the "giggles" from afar
Cons
- Higher price point
- Remote control range is very limited
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
Best for Oral Sex Feeling: Ora 3
Ladies, don’t worry if your partner doesn’t know how to go down on you. Because this little bad boy definitely does!
With a rotating tongue simulator that can vibrate in a dozen different ways, there is no reason why you should settle for anything less.
Get ready to brag to your friends about the literal award-winning oral sex you receive!
Read our Lelo Ora 3 review!
Pros
- Simulates oral sex sensations with rotating nubs, so you don't need anyone to go down on you!
- Multiple intensity levels and patterns to keep you guessing (and groaning in delight)
- Waterproof so you can take the "licks" in the shower
- Ergonomic design so you can comfortably reach your peak whether you're in bed or on the kitchen counter!
Cons
- Some users may find the sensation too intense
- Requires regular cleaning and maintenance
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
Best for Prostate Massage: Loki Wave 2
Ah yes, finally a sex toy that gives the prostate some good ol’ lovin’!
If you or your partner love the P-spot as much as I do, this might just end up becoming one of your favorite toys.
And mark my words, this is no ordinary prostate massager.
As someone who embraced the P-spot orgasm a bit later in life, I always struggled to find the right toys that could help me with that elusive little zone.
But then, the clouds parted, the sky cleared up, and with angels chorusing in the background, I came across this great toy from Lelo.
After that first explosive climax, I’ve never looked back since.
With eight different massage settings, this is a sex toy that literally gives you waves of pleasure with its WaveMotion technology.
And I don’t know about you, but if a toy is completely waterproof (read: I can use it in the bath whenever my mind wanders), it’s always a huge plus for me!
Read our Lelo Loki Wave 2 review!
Pros
- Curved design means you are sure to reach your prostate
- Wave motion technology gives your literal waves of pleasure
- Multiple vibration patterns and intensity levels so that you can get creative with P-spot play
- USB rechargeable and waterproof, so you can wash it up easily
Cons
- May require practice for optimal positioning
- Higher price point
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
Wand Vibrator by Le Wand
Abra-cadabra your way to an earth-shattering orgasm with the Wand Vibrator from Le Wand.
This was, as a matter of fact, the very first toy that my current partner purchased for herself.
When we started sleeping together, and I was introduced to this guy for the first time, I knew that sex with this person was going to be so much more mind-blowing than my previous largely vanilla encounters.
What’s not to love about this toy? It’s just so much more than your standard vibrator, with its 100% cordless design and insanely powerful vibrations.
Hell, I’ve even used it to massage my neck and shoulders and I kid you not, it’s damn therapeutic!
Pros
- Powerful vibrations to make you experience the orgasms of your dreams
- Cordless and rechargeable lets you use it wherever, whenever
- Sleek and stylish design so that you can admire more than just your pleasure spot
Cons
- May be too bulky for some users
- Higher price point
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
Best for Shallow Penetration: We-Vibe Tango X Lipstick
The first bullet vibrator on this list and the most popular one in the world at that.
Forget about all those times you had to exasperatedly guide a lover on how to hit the right spots during sex.
This small vibrator, with its precise edges and flat tip, will never miss the mark. What a time to be alive, am I right?
Choose from eight different intensity levels and seven vibration modes. Or, better yet, get your partner to choose for you so that you’re always on your toes.
Need a G-spot vibrator? Well, it doesn’t get better than this toy right here.
Whether you want to add some heat to your sex life or just a toy to have some quality solo time with, you can’t go wrong with the Tango X.
And oh, did I mention that its small size means that you can literally carry it around in your purse or pocket in broad daylight, and no one would be any the wiser?
All the more reason for it to be the very next toy that you invest in!
Pros
- Compact and discreet design, so it's literally just a "lipstick" in your makeup bag
- Powerful vibrations give you orgasms that make your eyes roll back
- USB rechargeable and waterproof, so you can get "dirty" even when you're cleaning up
- Travel-friendly size lets you take it from LA to Tokyo
Cons
- Limited insertable length
- May not provide deep penetration
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
Best for Temperature Play: nJoy Pure Wand
Is it a prostate massager? Is it a G-spot stimulator? No, it’s the nJoy Pure Wand, and it can do both!
With an imposing stainless steel build and a curved shape that is designed specifically to get to those hard-to-reach pleasure spots, this is one of those toys that you absolutely need in your sex toys arsenal.
What’s more, it’s compatible with all kinds of lubes out there, be it a water-based variant or even something like coconut oil.
Pro-tip: if you’re using it as a couples sex toy, do not get started with it without any foreplay.
The first time my girlfriend and I got this toy for sexy times, we were so excited we decided to get straight into it (would NOT recommend)!
Pros
- Made from high-quality stainless steel to give you those "cold" sensations down there
- Dual-ended design; skinnier end for beginners, thicker end for advanced G-spot players
- Ergonomic shape for easy handling so you can go as deep as you want
- Compatible with all lubricants, so you don't have to worry even if all you have is coconut oil!
Cons
- Heavier weight may require more effort during use
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
Best for Hands-Free Sex: Colours Dual Density
I love my penis, but I got to admit, when I first saw the Colours Dual Density dildo, I just had to stop and admire it for a solid minute.
And why wouldn’t I? Firm on the inside and soft on the outside; it’s honestly a thing of beauty. Plus, it looks incredibly realistic, which always helps.
So, if you need that vagina stretched out or just want a mesmerizing dildo to have solo fun with, the Dual Density promises to be one of the best sex toys you can throw your hard-earned money at!
Pros
- Realistic dual-density silicone so you can feel like you're literally fucking someone
- Suction cup base for hands-free use so you can focus on getting off however you want
- Compatible with strap-on harnesses to give your partner the power to bang you
- Various sizes and colors available, so let your creativity play out!
Cons
- Requires a flat, smooth surface for optimal suction
- Cleaning and maintenance may take more effort
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
Best for Fetish Play: Kink Power Banger Fucking Machine
The first time I saw the Power Banger online, I remember thinking two things: the first was that it’d be funny to send this to your toxic ex with a “screw yourself” note, and the second was that this is an absolute beast of a machine.
I want you to do something for me.
I want you to close your eyes, take a deep breath, and imagine getting your holes pounded from a wide variety of angles at the breathtaking speed of 195 strokes per minute (that’s very very fast, in case you were wondering).
Felt good, right? Well, with the Power Banger, this could quite literally be your reality.
In fact, according to one reviewer on Amazon, you should not buy it “if you’re not prepared to be stuffed like a turkey on Thanksgiving.”
That was certainly an interesting visual…
However, if you’re looking to save money, this might not be a super-smart investment as it’s definitely going to burn a hole in your pocket.
Moreover, many users have complained about the suction cups breaking or coming off too easily.
So, while you might be daydreaming about all the ways this beastly machine can stretch out your vagina, you will need to think long and hard (pun very much intended) before you go for it.
Pros
- Powerful and adjustable motions let you experience what it's like to have your holes pounded in all kinds of ways!
- Sturdy and durable construction, so you don't have to worry about breaking it with your wild moves
- Adjustable speed and depth settings mean you can go from slow and steady to rough and rapid in the blink of an eye
Cons
- Expensive investment
- Requires a dedicated space for setup and storage
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
Best for G Spot Stimulation: Gigi 2
My girlfriend and I swear by this toy because it’s just so freaking good. The last time we used it in the bedroom, she was gushing all over the place.
In fact, I think she must have soaked through the many layers of towels we had on our bed in anticipation of what was to come.
Needless to say, this is one of the best sex toys out there, in our opinion.
With uber-strong motors that pack a pleasure punch for the G-spot, all while staying perfectly silent, the Gigi 2 is a massager to die for.
And if you’re creative with it, you can use it for more than just treating yourself internally.
Its flattened tip actually makes a great stimulator for the clitoris as well, so you get this brilliant two-in-one option!
Pros
- Curved design to make sure you never miss the G-spot
- Multiple vibration patterns and intensity levels to take you from "damn" to "HOT DAMNN!!"
- Body-safe silicone material so you come again and again without a worry in the world
- Waterproof design makes it perfect for lazy slobs who don't want to spend too much time cleaning it; just run it under the tap!
Cons
- Some users may find the shape uncomfortable
- Limited external stimulation
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
Wearable: Lush 3
We’ve seen a treasure trove of vibrators in our lives, but the Lush 3 from Lovense easily takes the cake in the wearable app-controlled category.
This is one of the best sex toys for couples because it’s undoubtedly a godsend over long distances.
My girlfriend’s job requires her to move to a different city for a few weeks a couple of times a year, and while the distance apart is agonizing, we don’t let it get in the way of our fun, kinky adventures.
We’ve used it in all kinds of scenarios, from public foreplay in cinemas and supermarkets to long-distance fun with the help of the app’s video session feature.
I mean, I get to see my partner’s face and hear her moans from far away with this neat little toy buzzing away inside of her? Sign me up all day!
So, if you’re looking for couples sex toys that make both of you go “OMFG!!”, you can’t go wrong with this nifty little wireless remote vibrator.
Would you like to get more details about the vibrator? Read our Lovense Lush 3 review!
Pros
- Wearable vibrator lets you (or your lover) give you rocking orgasms with zero touch
- App-controlled means phone/video sex has never been hotter
- Quiet and discreet so that you can have a party down there with no one knowing what's really up
- Waterproof design lets you get off even in the bathtub
Cons
- App connectivity may have occasional glitches
- Limited range for remote control
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
Finger Vibrator: Dory
Has your hand ever cramped up from fingering yourself or your partner? I know mine has, and it’s not a fun feeling.
But there is no reason why something like cramping should stop you from playing with your favorite person.
Thanks to the Dory finger vibrator, you can let your fingers relax and have your partner moaning and grabbing the sheets in ecstasy in no time.
As one of the most innovative silicone toys out there, this vibrating finger sleeve is a must-have regardless of what your relationship status is.
And yep, you guessed it: completely waterproof! So, if you are a lazy slob like me, you’ll find it very easy to clean up.
This is not the first vibrating finger sleeve we’ve tried, but it’s been the best one so far.
We previously tried out the one from Dame Fin, but we found its vibrational strength to be on the weaker side.
Plus, it doesn’t have as many frequencies as Dory’s does, so it’s safe to say that we were more than grateful for the upgrade!
If you ask me, finger vibrators are proof of the power of sex toys, be it for solo play or for couples.
Melanie Rose summed it up perfectly in an interview with Time Magazine (2), in which she talks about the importance of expanding your sexual horizons.
“There are some people who are like, ‘I don’t need those toys, I have my fingers,’” she said. “Well, carry on with your fingers, but don’t be afraid to try something a little bit different, a little bit more erotic. Go into an adult toy store, do some research and explore.”
Preaching to the (very horny) choir there, Melanie!
Pros
- So compact and versatile that you can use it for anything from getting yourself off to your boning sessions with your lover/s
- Intense vibrations give your clit all the happy times
- Waterproof and travel-friendly, so you can use it literally anywhere
- Easy to use and clean, so it's perfect if you hate cleaning up as much as I do
Cons
- Limited reach and maneuverability
- May not provide deep penetration
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
Best for Restraint Play: Ribbon Bondage Set
Are you a newbie in the world of BDSM?
Did you re-watch 50 Shades of Grey recently and decide that all of this spanking good pleasure is worth a (cum)shot?
Well, I bear good news for you because this ribbon bondage set is the perfect way to kickstart your bondage journey.
With everything from a leather blindfold to keep you in the dark to a flogger to give you a good little spanking for being too naughty, this set has everything you need to unleash that wild, kinky side you’ve been suppressing for way too long.
Pros
- Versatile bondage set so you can play out even your kinkiest fantasies
- Soft and comfortable materials so the pain is truly pleasurable
- Adjustable straps for a customized fit, so it doesn't matter what size you are; you can get tied up and gagged however you please
- Beginner-friendly so BDSM newbies can try it out with no fear
Cons
- Not suitable for advanced bondage enthusiasts
- Limited restraint options
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
Best for Zero-Gravity Sex: Sportsheets Door Sex Swing
Nothing quite like high-flying sex!
Okay, so this is not exactly “high-flying”, but this sex swing kit is still a pretty neat way to engage in some hot suspended sex.
No need to put a “Wingardium leviosa” charm here (hands up if you got that reference), because all you need is a sturdy door frame and a willing partner who doesn’t mind zero-gravity sex.
Pro-tip: swinging around means the opportunity to try out some swinging-ly good sex positions. Search up “air rider sex position”, and you can thank me later!
Check out our best door sex swing guide for even more ideas!
Pros
- Allows for weightless and suspended sex positions (take out that Kama Sutra book for wild ideas!)
- Sturdy and secure design, so you don't have to worry about a trip to the ER!
- Adjustable straps for optimal positioning so you can get screwed however you please
- Easy to install and remove means you can set it up no matter how tired or lazy you're feeling
Cons
- May not be suitable for all body sizes
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
What to Consider Before Buying Toys for Sex Room?
Sex toys can range in price from harmlessly affordable to freakishly expensive. Figure out a budget or else your back won’t be the only thing that gets blown!
If your toys are small and can be discreetly hidden, that’s perfect! But if they are larger and more obvious, clear up a space in your sex room – a shoe cabinet or maybe a discreet drawer – that can house your best inanimate friends safely.
Want something soft that mimics a person gently going down on you? Or would you rather have something more heavy-duty that can screw you every which way you want? Take some time out to think about your preferences and invest accordingly.
High-quality toys are generally safer and more durable. Always opt for reputable brands, such as the ones mentioned in this guide.
Conclusion
In the Time interview, Melanie compared going to your local sex shop to the experience of visiting a candy store. And I think that’s a pretty apt comparison because of the insane number of options available to you!
You might already have some idea of what you’re into, but you might also discover something you never knew you wanted but are now totally obsessed with.
So whether it’s an orgasm gap in your relationship that you’re looking to fill, or you want to add some extra sensation to your solo play sessions, don’t be afraid to go to your local sex shop or just browse the Internet for tantalizing options.
Still confused about where to start? Our favorite vibrator, the Womanizer Premium 2, is a great option for quiet clit-sucking bliss.
Or, if you want something for your next porking sesh with your partner, why not give the Tor 3 vibrating penis ring a shot? Some good vibes (pun intended once again) for both of you!
And finally, if you have an adventurous kinky side, you can’t go wrong with levitating sex courtesy of the Sportsheets Door Sex Swing.
Looking for some wild sex room ideas for your BDSM ventures? Check out our guide to learn how to design a room worthy of a good ol’ spanking! Read also our Liberator Bastion Bondage Stocks review!
FAQs
How can couples incorporate sex toys into their sex room?
Couples can incorporate sex toys in their sex room by openly discussing their desires and comfort levels, before experimenting with a few different toys.
How can I talk to my partner about using toys in our sex life?
Starting a conversation about using sex toys can feel a bit awkward initially, but openness and honesty are key. Consider reaching out to a certified sex therapist with your partner, as professional help can go a long way in helping both of you reach a satisfying sex life.
What kind of sex toys are the best for a sex room?
The best sex toys for a sex room depend on individual preferences and comfort levels. Options range from vibrators and dildos to bondage sets and sex furniture. Think about safety, quality, and compatibility with your kinks or fantasies.
How to store toys in a sex room?
Sex toys should be stored in a clean, dry place. Many toys come with their own storage bags for convenience. Consider a dedicated drawer or box for storing toys, and always clean them before and after use.
Are there any creative ways to display sex toys in a sex room?
Think wall-mounted racks, decorative boxes, or even a display cabinet for storing your beautiful sex toys. Remember, the most important thing is that they’re stored in a way that keeps them clean and ready for use.
References
- https://www.netflix.com/title/81220971
- https://time.com/6195234/how-to-build-a-sex-room-melanie-rose-design-tips/
Womanizer Premium 2
Prices are always changing. To see the current deal to spice things up, check out the shop we recommend!
Pros
- Made of high quality materials
- Waterproof
- Quiet yet intense
Cons
- On the pricey side
